I would like to help, but I'm not a doctor. It can't really be VIH since a BBJ is very low risk. But the cold sore might be more related with herpes. Well I'm not sure, go see a doctor. Good luck!
Blow Job No Risk! If you are going to freak out about these type of encounters, maybe it is best you get to know your person well before doing these things. Not nagging you, but it just seems you have a lot of guilt not just from the hiv scare but with being with someone so spontaneous. You can relax and keep practicing safe sex and don't pull your hair out!!!!
Thanks, I would not worry about it if I did not have symptoms and I keep going back in my mind looking at that stupid cold sore thinking that somehow semen got into that thing...and the fact that my roommate will not stop joking about it with me...obviouly he knows how worried I am and probably for no reason, but still, like most in this forum, I am worried and looking for comfort...and education to find it. Thanks..anyone else to add to it would help. Thanks again!
Whatever is causing your symptoms has nothing to do with giving the guy head. You were not at risk of contracting HIV.
Symptoms mean nothing. If you read a few posts, you'll see that virtually everyone here has every symptom on earth. And they are negative.
If your only concern is a BJ, you didn't get HIV. Cold sore or not.
What williamnj? You mean there is a 5-10%. Are you posting to the right person here. I was "possibly" exposed 2 weeks ago and have not had any tests. Not sure about the WB test comment. Not sure what to make of this comment in general. Please clarify.
william is a troll here, never mind him.
As you've been told by others, oral sex is too low a risk to worry about. You would have to be the unluckiest person in the world to contract HIV by giving a blowjob. You're fine.