iam scred to test

[savemechrist]

Hello friends i am 21 years old..my english is not good but please try to understand my problem ..i am very scared ..me have sex with a party girl called by my friend after we drink on january.i am sure she is hiv+ becouse she always sleep with guys it seems after all i am from a place where hiv rate is very high..after drinking we had sex with condom but i am very scared becouse i had a open sore on my penis head cover (that one skin covering my penis cover)i got that scratch 20Minutes before sex during masturbation by her finger since she give me very hard without any lubriction and it was little paining with burning..after that we drink again and after that she was putting her hand inside her vagina hole inside her hand was sticky i saw then i open the condom but she toook it and put in my penis but the way she hold the condom is very scary her hand was wet and sticky with vagina water and she touched inside condoom .i know she have contimated the vagina water inside condom ..that water  was is now inside condoom touching my penis foreskin scratch..can that wet and sticky vagina water inside can infect me..after one month i got fever and sore throat for 3 days.and after three months a body ache.now after four month i am having throat pain and difficulty swollowing not much pain..am i infected please tell me dooes all symptoms come together or reoccoouring one after anoother?i am only son in family and i regret my mistake.i dont want my parents to heart attack please tell me do i need to test over my incident..

[Vance2335]

No risk=no test

[savemechrist]

so I do not need to test over these incident?

is it safe to move on.thank you this will bbe my last thread

[Vance2335]

In theory we could be hit by a asteroid tomorrow, but we know it's not going to happen. In theory anything can happen, but it doesn't.

You had no risk.

[savemechrist]

But  in theoretical there is  some what chance of infection so i want to know more knowledge how infection doesn't occur even if the fluid were present inside the condom..to my concern the fluid we're inside and the virus ur intact inside the condom which the virus we're no longer exposed to air hence its like having a sex without condom since it come in contact with my foreskin and the penis hole..please elaborate me with ur knowledge ..

[Vance2335]

Read the first response you were given

[savemechrist]

OK Thank you.can i just move on without test for this exposur?is it safe?
please clear this doubt aftet 5months of exposure a throat pain and excess mucus  and nausea could it be ars symptom?
or can anxiety contribute all these?

[JamesD1991]

I did not say you were at risk.  i said if you are concerned, you can go test for a conclusive result.

[savemechrist]

I no understand ..my friend sayning little risk is there..
I ask drn.tan  form and he says condom are only 95% safe.I think I am at risk na? Please sea friends do I need to test for vagina sticky water in condom touching my penis inside?

[savemechrist]

i am very confused some says no risk ..some say low risk..niw u r saying i need to test..
was my exxposure really a risk?i dont want to be the first person to be infected using a condom wiyhout breakage.
do i really need to test.?

[JamesD1991]

If you are concerned, you can take a test now for a conclusive result.  You cannot base your symptoms towards HIV.  Symptoms or lack thereof do not mean anything. The only way to know if you are infected or not is to test.

[savemechrist]

thanx to ur reply ..can u please look inside my scenerio properly please and give morr info why it wsd no risk though that wet sticky vagina come incontact with the open sore or urethra inside condom.
and regarding thr symptons question please

[JamesD1991]

As long as the head of your penis was covered, NO RISK