4 years of dating a girl with hiv positive

I date a hiv positive girl for 4 years and we always had sex without protection. What are the chances of me not to have contaminated???? thanks.

[cna341]

if all of your sexual encounters were condom protected.and condoms always were intact and unbroken.you didnt have any risk at all.

[Teak]

"we always had sex without protection"

[cna341]

my mistake.sorry.
are you for real?

[carol418]

Yes I'm for real. Why? My question is so absurd?

[cna341]

yes obviously you've put yourself at much risk here.stop having unprotected sex with her and test 3 months after your last exposure.

[carol418]

you guys think the chance is high I have contracted? I'm worried

[cna341]

Do a test now if it comes out negative then you only have to be worried about exposures over the last 3months.do a test now if negative then.............test 8 weak after your last sex if negative then.............test 3 months after your last sex.

[carol418]

Can I say by what you said I have a chance to be negative?

[LIZZIE LOU]

did you know that she had hiv when you were having unprotected sex ?

[chirag_neoliberal]

I advice you to take ELISA for HIV1/2  6-8 weeks and 13 weeks after the last unprotected sexual exposure.

A result of 6 week is highly unlikely to get changed .However 13 week test is compulsory for reliable results.


Always use condoms and never share needles.
    Chirag

[carol418]

NO, i didn't. What advice can you give me?

[LIZZIE LOU]

the only way to know your status is to test 3 months post exposure.  this will give you a conclusive result.

[carol418]

but do i have a chance? in your opinion...

[happy55]

Yes, you have chance not to be infected, I don't want to speak about odds, cause some people don't like it. Wish you the best !

[carol418]

thanks a lot!!

[carol418]

What do you think?

[Teak]

You need professional mental help.

[carol418]

help me. say what you think about my case

[NickOne7]

As told above seek testing.

[Teak]

Wrong.

[Teak]

Some people don't get sick. I never got sick for 21 years. This your second post on the forum and twice you have been wrong.

[carol418]

never on meds???

[Teak]

No I was not on meds for 21 years.

[carol418]

luck guy. :) Do you think i have a chance ?

[Teak]

Have you went and tested or you going to continue to play around on the computer?

[carol418]

i will do the test, but this I already know. What I wanted was a help to people who understand the subject to tell me if I have much chance of having contracted or not. but I realized that I can not count on you

[Teak]

You have to be an idiot to keep asking if you have much of a chance of contracting HIV and you stated you've been having unprotected sex for 4 years with an HIV positive person. You're are correct. You can't count on me to give you anything other than facts. I'm not here to play your guessing game.

[ricky_id]

A single exposure for four years in a row? C'mon.

[ricky_id]

Why don't you meanwhile wear condom until 3 months post last unprotected sex with your GF and get yourself checked by then? I'm following the consensus here that discussing statistical probabilities of catching HIV should better be done with the docs here, but I guess many have same opinion: the odds are AGAINST you.

[LIZZIE LOU]

this post has gone on long enough ! ! !

if you have had unprotected sex with someone who is hiv +...then you put yourself at risk and need to test.

the ONLY way to know your status is by testing...NOT BY STATISTICS.

we are not going to keep going over this time and time again.  take the advice that's been given and move along.