Yes, you are badly, badly overreacting. You can't contract HIV in that manner.
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thank you for the immediate answer..you made me calm a little..i guess it is more because i feel guilty towards my wife cause we are planning to have a baby...Even if it touched the tip of my pennis would i be the unlucky guy from this kind of exposure?it is the first and sure the last time i am doing that..sorry for my poor english..
Not even likely. Not a chance. That said if you are a sexually active person you should have a routine HIV/STI test(s) (along with other health tests)annually. But reading from the exposure you describe I don't think testing is warranted.
My advice, for what it's worth - is to stay away from CSM's in future. Just isn't worth it in the long run.