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Hi doctors,
I would really appreciate an answer to my questions. 6 days ago I got an handjob from a female masseuse and at the same time she fingered my anus for 2-3 minutes with different fingers. No gloves involved. I also escalated with my penis at the same time. The day after I noticed some blood when wiping myself after a toilet trip. There was No sex involved, no penis in anus or vagina. What are my risk of getting HIV from this event, from the fingering of my anus and the handjob? What if she had cuts on her fingers? I would really appreciate answer. Thank you.
I would really appreciate an answer to my questions. 6 days ago I got an handjob from a female masseuse and at the same time she fingered my anus for 2-3 minutes with different fingers. No gloves involved. I also escalated with my penis at the same time. The day after I noticed some blood when wiping myself after a toilet trip. There was No sex involved, no penis in anus or vagina. What are my risk of getting HIV from this event, from the fingering of my anus and the handjob? What if she had cuts on her fingers? I would really appreciate answer. Thank you.
Since you didn't answer the QUESTION above, I'll do it for you. Answer> No there wasn't a penis n my anus during the encounter so I should realize I had no risk and move on instead of asking more questions which are obviously irrelevant at this point.
Please let me know if you have the answers to my questions. I am really stressed about this situation and having a really hard mental time.
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Your situation involves personal contact with an object in air (hand, body, fluids, maybe blood, etc. ). You will be happy to learn that you had no risk, because you can't get hiv from personal contact except unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal with a penis, neither of which you did and you didn't share hollow needles to inject with which is the only other way to acquire hiv - there are ONLY 3 ways to get hiv. Note that 2 of them require a penis and the third requires a hollow injecting shared needle - there are no OTHER ways to get hiv. Analysis of large numbers of infected people over the 40 years of hiv history has proven that people don't get hiv in the way you are worried is a risk.
Hiv is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the WORST that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you say "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
No one got hiv from what you did during 40 years of hiv history and no one will get it in the next 40 years of your life either. You can do what you did any time and be safe from hiv.
The other person's status is irrelevant when you have no exposure to live virus.
No athlete ever got his from a bloody encounter with another and you won't either unless there is penis penetration.
Hiv is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the WORST that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you say "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
No one got hiv from what you did during 40 years of hiv history and no one will get it in the next 40 years of your life either. You can do what you did any time and be safe from hiv.
The other person's status is irrelevant when you have no exposure to live virus.
No athlete ever got his from a bloody encounter with another and you won't either unless there is penis penetration.
Thank you for this. It really helps and I appreciate your answer. Last question, should I not worry if her finger was bleeding/or had a cut when she fingered me? I could not see any cuts though, but I had small bleeding the day after.
Since you didn't answer the QUESTION above, I'll do it for you. Answer> No there wasn't a penis n my anus during the encounter so I should realize I had no risk and move on instead of asking more questions which are obviously irrelevant at this point.
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