Do I have HIV

[worriedsick522]

I had unprotected sex with two different guys a month apart. I know it is irresponsible. After the second one, I went and had a full std test all were negative. But then I read where it could take up to 90 days for hiv to show up. I have been tired, not hungry, I've lost 15 pounds in three weeks, diarehha, and I get headaches they usually last 2 days then disappear. But then two weeks exactly i get the headache fever muscle aches and night sweats again. Is this HIV? I live in the United States I have seen in several posts about the new rapid HIV test but I have no idea which one was performed on me. Should I be worried? Ive also noticed where it is very painful to have sex. Maybe i have a different std that didn't show up the first time?

[bud279]

hi there i am glad to hear he said he will go a 8week test is good indicater that u wont get it
because i never really heard any one getting it after 6 to 8 weeks just be strong and try to avoid bringing ur self down and thinking about it i know i get axciety over it as well but be strong and dont thinck or even bother looking at the symtoms i got 7 days left for me to test for a negtive test thanks and good luck it will go good

[worriedsick522]

thanks for thought i will ask, i did ask him if he was and he kinda got mad and said i was worrying for no reason. but i think he will go with me. its 6 wks post now so ill have to wait a few more weeks i have read from the doctor forums that 8 wks is pretty much a sure thing so im going to do that and the 3 month

[bud279]

hey teak is a 80 day negtive test pretty accurate i know its only 10 days

[bud279]

hi there ask them to go for a swab test with u  if they back out then there some thing wrong thats what i did with the one i was worried about and she went and showed me she was negtive so best thing to do is ask them

[Teak]

You never take anyones word for their status.

[worriedsick522]

both of them said they were clean

[Teak]

I don't guess when it comes to HIV. You had an exposure.

[worriedsick522]

So do you think its quite possible I do?

[Teak]

To late to worry. You can test 3 months after your last unprotected sex to obtain a conclusive test result.