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help possible hiv :(

The other day i slept with my girlfriend , i lost my virginity , but it was unprotected
As i have been looking on websites , as ive got little spots on my bellend under the skin
There like little goosbumps , also ive picked up a headache and she has got a sore throat , i was just wondering is this a big sign as im really wooried about this . Can you please help me :)!
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How can you be so sure ?
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No Needles, No Unprotected sex..... And if she was infected by her mother she would know by now!!

You do not have an HIV issue, Kindly Move Along...
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So how does the first person get it :s ?
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186166 tn?1385259382
STD = SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASE

STDS...INCLUDING HIV...DONT JUST DROP DOWN OUT OF THIN AIR.  
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Because we were both virgin we dont have any std's surely that untrue?
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You were virgins sorry
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You are virgin, she is a virgin. Neither of you inject needles - how possibly could have gotten HIV?

Do you have some reason to suspect she shoots heroin and shares the needle? If not, HIV isn't your concern.

Where a condom so you don't get the chick pregnant - that is you concern, do a yearly STD test to cover off the near impossibilities
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Her throat is really sore now .. And my penis is still a bit sore and itchyy ? Any ideas?
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1563685 tn?1310402354
"The other day i slept with my girlfriend , i lost my virginity , but it was unprotected " Fine, go for it alone.
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186166 tn?1385259382
tell me where i said that if both of them were virgins that he had no risk?

stay out of my business ! ! !
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1563685 tn?1310402354
Even if both of them were virgins if might be that his girlfriend had shared needles or contracted HIV during her mom's child labouring of her.
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186166 tn?1385259382
so you were BOTH virgins?
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1563685 tn?1310402354
They also count as symptoms. And I've told you symptoms are no reliable indicators of HIV.
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The spots are now on the rim of the penis and also on the inside of my foreskin ..any ideas?
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1563685 tn?1310402354
Symptoms are no reliable indicators, they could be by another cause. But a test is.
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Yes but headache , shes got a sore throat im gettin a cold surely its a sign?
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MOVE ON. This is an HIV specific forum.
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Its not a sexually transmited infection-those are fordice spots.confirm that with your health provider.
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1563685 tn?1310402354
Sorry, wrong wording. Just tried to be straightforward to be understood. :S No offence meant, really.
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Clean????? Grrrrrrrr.
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1563685 tn?1310402354
For security, go check together 3 months after that sex. Meanwhile, wear condom for vaginal and anal sex until you both know you're all clean.
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She hasnt had sexual intercourse before .. And when i wear a comdom my dick wont go hard
So i have to wait 3 months until i can get checked .. Could it possibly be nothing and me just worrying?
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1563685 tn?1310402354
Go check 3 months after your last sex with her. You don't know if she has been infected perhaps as she was born or from sharing insterile needles or from unprotected vaginal or anal sex with another partner. Trust the test result whatever your symptoms are. No buts.

Wear condom next time when you don't know her well yet.
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