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Unprotected with Risky Female (HIV RISK?)

I met a girl on an online dating site who said she was was looking to meet a nice fun guy and see where it goes.... We talked on the phone for a few days then finally I met her. After some drinks, we ended up back at my house and havd unprotected vaginal sex for about 10mins. She told me she was on birth control.  After we had sex she told me she was an adult film actress and also liked girls. I was shocked!!

So after I took her home, I did an internet search to see if I could find any videos of her but I also came across some advertisements for her being an escort.  She is 21yr old latin girl from Columbia, but this all took place in Miami, Florida.

Since then she has contacted me via phone to say hello and she doesn't seem to be weird about anything but I still can't help but think that maybe she had something! There was no cuts or scrapes on my penis and certainly no open wounds.   According to doctors on this site, this wouldn't be a cause for huge concern because of single exposure.

1) Should I be very worried about HIV?  
2) What can I do to alleviate my anxiety?  

I feel so sick to my stomach and can't believe I did something so dumb.

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so ars last 3weeks have you heard of it lasting longer than that something like 8weeks
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im really worried about hiv. so ars last 3weeks have you heard of it lasting longer than that something like 8weeks
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thank u i feel much better even though im still waiting for my results but like i said i learned my lession
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Because sperm and vaginal secretions are two very different bodily fluids and the woman is being penetrated not the man.If the sex were anal sex then it would even out and both man and woman would be equally at risk.
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hi rainlover i was reading one of your post ,answers and u stated that it is much harder for a man to get hiv from a woman than it is for a woman to get hiv from a man my question is how is that so?
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if she had unprotected sex with you...she's probably had unprotected sex with others.

you can take a duo test at 4 weeks or an antibody test at 6-8 weeks...both will give you a good indication of your status.  both tests need to be followed up at 3 months for a conclusive result
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1.You had a risk,but it's much harder for a man to contract Hiv from a woman than the other way around. 2. Take a DUO test at 4 weeks.All the best.
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