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Cialis + Drink + flu infected sexworker +broken condom = need desperate help
Hello to all,
before posting this question i did some reasearch and i find i am not the only one who is posting this question, but i have a bit of different situation here.
yesterday night me and my friend got two paid sex workers (i know i did wrong and i am crying now) i took one tablet of Cialis and drink quite good amount as well.It was one on one sexual encounter, she gave me oral( blowjob unprotected) no french kiss, no exchange of salvia, in the middle of the intercourse when i stroke in i felt the condom is broke( i wore two condoms) i withdraw it the second i realised, i guess the exposure maximum last 5 seconds( i was on top)...nothing more then that...and no ejeculation or orgasm made at that time....i put on new condom (again two condoms) and finish the session...
to mention again she were having flu...when i sit with her,after 1 hour i start feeling that i got some flu as well,...anyhow all done..
when i wake up in morning the first thing i got in my mind was that little exposure...now i am scared to death of the HIV infection...thinking since morning for every damn second...its exactly now 18 hours for the incident...i am feeling light fever since morning and the more i think...the more i am getting it...
what are my chances that i took an infection or any other STD...i got some little itching all arround my body...without any rash or sever itching...may be its just my mind is thinking too much...the more i am reading on this topic the more worst its getting for me...
PLEASE HELP ME...do HIV infection get symptons that quickly like fever and flu?? within 12 hours even??? or any other STD....help me please (not to forgot i am heavy smoker as well)
before posting this question i did some reasearch and i find i am not the only one who is posting this question, but i have a bit of different situation here.
yesterday night me and my friend got two paid sex workers (i know i did wrong and i am crying now) i took one tablet of Cialis and drink quite good amount as well.It was one on one sexual encounter, she gave me oral( blowjob unprotected) no french kiss, no exchange of salvia, in the middle of the intercourse when i stroke in i felt the condom is broke( i wore two condoms) i withdraw it the second i realised, i guess the exposure maximum last 5 seconds( i was on top)...nothing more then that...and no ejeculation or orgasm made at that time....i put on new condom (again two condoms) and finish the session...
to mention again she were having flu...when i sit with her,after 1 hour i start feeling that i got some flu as well,...anyhow all done..
when i wake up in morning the first thing i got in my mind was that little exposure...now i am scared to death of the HIV infection...thinking since morning for every damn second...its exactly now 18 hours for the incident...i am feeling light fever since morning and the more i think...the more i am getting it...
what are my chances that i took an infection or any other STD...i got some little itching all arround my body...without any rash or sever itching...may be its just my mind is thinking too much...the more i am reading on this topic the more worst its getting for me...
PLEASE HELP ME...do HIV infection get symptons that quickly like fever and flu?? within 12 hours even??? or any other STD....help me please (not to forgot i am heavy smoker as well)
ok calm down, with HIV symptoms they do not appear until 2 - 4 weeks after infection. the flu is very catching!!! its too early for symptoms. your mind is going into overdrive. i know exactly what that is like coz i have worried needlessy about hiv.
but whatever we say i dont think its going to sink in. an unproctected blowjob is NO RISK.
it is highly unlikely you caught hiv from 5 secs of your penis being exposed. its even highly unlikely she ever had HIV in the 1st place.
but get tested for peace of mind. the mind is an extremely funny thing, it can do all sorts to trick you.
but whatever we say i dont think its going to sink in. an unproctected blowjob is NO RISK.
it is highly unlikely you caught hiv from 5 secs of your penis being exposed. its even highly unlikely she ever had HIV in the 1st place.
but get tested for peace of mind. the mind is an extremely funny thing, it can do all sorts to trick you.
thanks a lot people...thank you very much...belive me i got a long breath of relief since morning...damn...you are right...i am researching and i got all the things i thought i am already got HIV and now i am reading how to spend life after getting HIV...lol...
so my chances for 5 seconds exposure???...any possibility..(Sorry if annoying you but you know how it is like to spend 6 weeks before test done...:)
so my chances for 5 seconds exposure???...any possibility..(Sorry if annoying you but you know how it is like to spend 6 weeks before test done...:)
5 seconds...possible but unlikely and if you were under the influence of beer or whatever it can impair your thinking of how long something was. test at 3 months for a conclusive result.
Note...do not wear 2 condoms, they break easier and you found this out. Stick with 1.
Note...do not wear 2 condoms, they break easier and you found this out. Stick with 1.
i am sure and i remember because i was not lost at that time and i was compeletely in my senses...the second i felt its broke i put it out allthough it was 2 to 3 seconds but by keeping the margin of error i said its 5 seconds, the maximum i would say...
and one more thing...i can take the medicine for flu and fever as its not related to HIV?
and one more thing...i can take the medicine for flu and fever as its not related to HIV?
sorry my bad...never been in such situation before in my 27 yrs...always had trusted partner( very few)...and usually i stick with oral...between thats second time i had paid sex worker after 18 yrs when i had it first time(protected luckily)...horrible mistake i guess...
my mind is just so damn F*** up...not able to think properly....i thought may be this flu have something to do with HIV symptons and i should take advice first...plus i belong to a place where i am not most likely going to find a trusted doctor...or the one i can consult with full confidence...my family doctor is out of question....
my mind is just so damn F*** up...not able to think properly....i thought may be this flu have something to do with HIV symptons and i should take advice first...plus i belong to a place where i am not most likely going to find a trusted doctor...or the one i can consult with full confidence...my family doctor is out of question....
no your flu isant anything to do with HIV. As vance said its possible in theory but soooo unlikey.
this is a mind thing! its hard to understand as your paniking. the only way for peace of mind is a test and thats all it would be - is peace of mind.
as the docs have said before, in theory its possible to be hit by a tidal wave as you are sitting here reading this, but the odds......
this is a mind thing! its hard to understand as your paniking. the only way for peace of mind is a test and thats all it would be - is peace of mind.
as the docs have said before, in theory its possible to be hit by a tidal wave as you are sitting here reading this, but the odds......
after reading all of you people...i just had my meal...and i feel that my fever is no more...its kind of funny...is it all your mind does to you???..
and one more thing...any number for my odds???
and one more thing...any number for my odds???
full sex with ejaculation is 1 in 1000.... even less with what you descride. yes it is funny how your fever has just gone!!!! dont under estimate the mind. i was so convinced i had it, i had the fever, swollen glands, sore throat. you name it i had it where HIV was concered and guess what i dont have it.
i check the lab today...they have HIV1 test on list...so after 1 month i will do first test and after 3 second and after 6 third??? is this how it goes?
im from england, i have no idea. we go to the gum clinic and they do all the tests for free.
paying for it is not my concern(its my life matter)...just need to know which test i should do...so i can do it accurately...like if i have test after 1 month now...and then after 3 month ...if still negative i am good to go...but is this test have some specific name?
i have no idea, my blood was taken from my vain and sent off. i dont know how these home ones work.
thanks a lot for everything...:)...maybe someone else can help me with the test name
one more thing i just got to know do i need to do this Post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP)as well??
http://www.nacp.gov.pk/
from here you can find the contact of doctors .
consultation is free
testing is free
from here you can find the contact of doctors .
consultation is free
testing is free
it is highly unlikely that you contracted hiv from 2-5 seconds of unprotected exposure. it is also unlikely that this escort even has hiv...MOST ppl dont.
you can test at 6-8 weeks for a good indication of your status...just follow up at 3 months.
pep is normally reserved for those who had unprotected sex with someone KNOWN to be hiv positive.
you can test at 6-8 weeks for a good indication of your status...just follow up at 3 months.
pep is normally reserved for those who had unprotected sex with someone KNOWN to be hiv positive.
those "what ifs" SHOULD be there...you were still unprotected and the ONLY way to know your status is by testing.
for which i have to wait 6 weeks and for confirmation 3 month...i am sure i will gone mad in this time...the more i am trying to relax...i feel like crying :(,.,..i just got rid of anxiety 2 hours before...now its all over me again
i will go tomorrow morning ASAP to see some doctor as well so he can examine me and see if i shud take PEP or not...but man its hard time to spend...:(:(
i will go tomorrow morning ASAP to see some doctor as well so he can examine me and see if i shud take PEP or not...but man its hard time to spend...:(:(
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On tht point, using two Condoms is not very good practice, it causes friction and tht causes Condoms to fail, as clearly demonstrated in your 'situation'. One Condom tht hase been stored properly and used in the right manner is enough to protect you.