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Had Sex in parlor in Bangkok.Used condom(Condom not broken).Safe?

Sir,
I had sex with a massage woman in a massage parlor in Bangkok. From the next day, I am having loose motion and chills. took a 4th generation test (ELSA) after 5 days of potential exposure. it came out to be negative. Felt I am perfectly alright. also, No loose motion, No chills etc. Then I learnt from internet that there is still chances of infection. started getting chills and loose motion and head ache again. Went to a doctor. Looking into my medical test record and hearing my explanation, doctor also told the chances are very less. Again understood that I am not completely safe from the internet articles. Want to take a test again before i have any contact with my wife. IS there any need to worry?

1. I had used a condom
2. Condom was intact and did not slip off or break before and after ejaculation
3. I removed the condom safely.
4. Blow job was given after the condom was put
5. No kisses happened
6. BUT I was having a small cut in the side of the penis (Not bleeding cut. Just the upper skin was broken after a shaving which i did before going for massage)

Please reply sir. Dieing of tension.
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There was no risk in this scenario. I don't recommend testing. HIV is not your problem.  Quit symptom surfing online. Don't mess with your own head. You are okay.
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But in a condition where I have taken her nipple into my mouth? But no breast milk.
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No risk. Consumption of body fluid can't let contraction of virus. For some one who consumes infected body fluid, it enters the digestive system. For infection, the virus needs to enter the nervous system which happens mostly through the blood stream. Also, saliva inhibits the virus. You are fine. Move on.
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