Condoms don't get small holes in them. Condoms are designed when they fail to fail catastrophically.
Take a condom and put a small hole in it and masterbate agressivly with it and tell me what happens to the condom...it will fully break.
the experts on here will say that there will be no hole without an obvious break, but i have seen people complaining of finding tiny holes in condom after or during sex so i disagree
masterbation is totally different from penetrative vaginal / anal sex. insertive vaginal / anal sex gives more force during penetration that just enough to break the condom into half if there's a hole ( tiny hole).