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Did I get HIV infected from this???

Hi there,

I would like to know the chances of me getting HIV from my recent encounters just this past summer. I am a male, and I had protected sex with a total of 3 different female sex workers/ prostitutes, during 3 different separate encounters. Let's say they were all infected, I would like to know the chances of me becoming infected by what happened in my encounters with them.

Each time I tried to be safe, a condom was worn during penis to vaginal intercourse (no anal was involved), and aside from kissing their body like normal sex, I never came in contact with kissing their lip/ mouth in any way, and also did not give them oral of any kind.

Regarding the body, I don't recall having kissed or licked any open wounds, however, I did suck on the nipple area though, hopefully they weren't pregnant in a way that was not noticeable which made me unaware of, and had infected breast milk come out which I did not notice while the sucking happened.

Anyways, condom was worn on my penis every time, and from my memory, I do not recall the condom breaking as each time when we were finished I took a quick look at the condom and the sperm was inside and didn't seem to have leaked out. I also made an effort from time to time during each intercourse to make sure the condom was on and covering my whole penis or at least as much as possible, as sometimes I was not super hard so worried the condom may slip out a bit (hopefully if any of that slipping out possibly happened a little, no vaginal fluid got it).

Lastly, they were the ones that supplied the condoms, and I did not really pay attention to what type or brand they were. I recently heard that only certain condoms are safe to prevent/ decrease HIV transmission, such as latex ones. I have no idea which ones they used, what if they didn't use the latex ones?

In addition, there were 2 occasions, in which with 2 out of the 3 females, half way during intercourse, I pulled out and asked them to give me a foot job, and both times half way through the foot job I decided to lick and suck on their feet, forgetting the feet had just came in contact with my condom through the foot job, in which the condom had just came in contact with their vagina during the intercourse right before that. Will this in any way be similar to me, the male, giving them, the female, unprotected oral? Since their vaginal fluid might of went into my mouth this way.

This was my experience with the female sex workers/ prostitutes. Let's say worst comes to worst they were actually HIV or other types of serious sexual diseases infected, what are my chances of getting it through with what happened in my encounters with them?

Please kindly advise as I am very worried. It all took place in mid to end of August 2010, if I am to wait the 3 months before getting tested, I won't find out until end of November to early December 2010. I am dying to know your professional or experienced knowledge and inputs on this beforehand. before I decide or go to take my test. I may be over reacting, but I am just so scared so just trying to point out every single possibility there could of been even though it may be some of the smallest and most ridiculous points.

Please help and provide your kind reply! I really look forward to it!!!!

Much thanks and appreciated,

Nick

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Sorry I posted it 2 times, its my first time using this forum, don't know how to remove one of them. Please excuse the accident as it was not meant to spam.

Please kindly read my post and hopefully you can provide me with some answer.

Thanks,
Nick
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Wht's up Nick?!

"...Anyways, condom was worn on my penis every time..."
Well done using a Condom and good HIV awareness!

=)

"...I pulled out and asked them to give me a foot job.."
You also seem to have a foot fetish, thought my friends were the only ones!
Tht being said, you had NO risk of HIV contraction.
Thnk abt it, ORAL sex carries NO risk. You sucked her feet! You don't get HIV by touching!
You don't even need to get tested.
Smile. Stop worrying!
=)
Always use a Condom and continue to educate yourself and your friends abt HIV and safe sex practices.

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Hey herm7391,

Thanks very much for your reply! But as for the feet part, is it a little different though considering I wasn't sucking her feet normally, but the feet has actually touched the condom, in which the condom went inside her vagina just moments ago, so I was worried the vaginal fluid on the condom would of passed on to her feet and when I sucked on the feet I would of swallowed some :(
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You had no risk.
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Thanks Teak!

Are there anybody else who's kind to give some advices too? Please and thanks!!!

And doctors could you please help too!!
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