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Deeply concerned

I had vaginal sex with an escort on saturday 09 august 2014, i feel so bad after this error in judgement

after i ejaculated and pulled out i noticed to my horror the condom had stayed inside.

This was my exposure, this I can not change

Other information is

(1) I noticed when i pulled out there was semen on top of my penis and condom looking fluid, ( i am hoping thus my exposure was only in extraction,)
(2) the escort when she returned from extracting condom informed me that all the semen was in condom
(3) she also informed me that she was tested 2 months previous and this had not happened with anyone else

She did not seem as very deeply concerned as I was,, which freaked me out even more, i told her the truth that i had not had sex since my last annual testing

I cannot verify (2) and (3), she also said she was on birth control pill.

I will phone the escort agency later and see if they will give me details of her testing

What would be your opinion on my hiv exposure?  I cannot sleep and i have a wife, i cannot think straight and my hands are shaking

I will go for General STD testing in a week, and duo HIV testing in 28 days
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Most likely.
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Thanks, i will do that
If sperm was in condom, means that the head was in it until i withdrew i hope, and any exposure was minimal
I will get tested, and try keep busy until then, generally would this be considered low probabilty of hiv transmison?
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Then you might have had an exposure. Sounds like it came off upon withdrawl, but test at 4 week DUO, or 8 week antibody test to be safe.
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It was not,
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Was the condom hanging out of her?
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