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Doctor's help me save my wife - 3 times intercourse with a sex worker - Im scared

Any Doctor Please help me,

Last Friday, Aug 13, I was in Indonesia, I had vaginal intercourse thrice with one of the prostitutes. I had used condoms 3 times, Oral sex, she suck my dick for a while, I lick her vagina for a while.

I also fingered her for some time.- To my knowledge, I had a deep cut 3 months before on my middle finger and it took 3 stitches and now it has as soft skin in that place.

I'm married, this is my first time sex with a woman other than my wife. I'm really scared of hiv +ve, I have kids and I want to save my wife from this.

When can I test to know my results. Out of emotions I did a mistake and it had been 2 days I slept. I cannot control my tears.

Some doctor help me.
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1366547 tn?1287363950
Please move on from this. You never had a risk from anything you described, and you've been told this multiple times. You are fine.
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Hi all,

After a week of my issue, today I have some sort of irritation in my throat. This scares me like a he'll. Someone please help me.
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Thanks for your words bro/ sis.

I love you all (with tears)
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No, hand-genital transfer of vaginal fluid is not a risk. Your posts are screaming 'guilt' over having had sex with a sex worker. That is your only issue NOT HIV.
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1163575 tn?1339478617
no
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Will HIV get in if the vaginal fluid taken in fingers and touched my head and urethra of my penis?
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Thanks Teak
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NO RISK.
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In the Oral sex I did NOT use a condom, but no ejaculations happened....this also keeps me worried, I too have a non-bleeding toothless cavity....when I licked her Cu**

Its very miserable, I can't sleep for the last 3 days!
I'm so confused friends. Just a mistake of 5 mins is ruining me all 24 hours every day.

I can't even tell this to anyone than you my friends

Thanks to all
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In the Oral sex I did NOT use a condom, but no ejaculations happened....this also keeps me worried, I too have a non-bleeding toothless cavity....

Its very miserable, I can't sleep for the last 3 days!
I'm so confused friends. Just a mistake of 5 mins is ruining me all 24 hours every day.

I can't even tell this to anyone than you my friends

Thanks to all
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You never had an exposure.
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Kumar,

You are a final year med student, Could you plz tell me the probability of getting HIV from an unprotected sex from a positive women?

Thanks in advance
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Thanks friend
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Thanks friend...for your support....
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1163575 tn?1339478617
nothing to worry by that..you still had no risk..time to move on :)
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I have put my condoms in the same fingers I fingered her...

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186166 tn?1385259382
NOTHING that you have described put you at risk for contracting hiv.

hiv is transmitted through...
unprotected vaginal / anal intercourse
sharing iv drug works
mother to child

CLEARLY you can see that you had no risk.
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