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Ejaculate In mouth with Hiv positvie Partner!!!!!!!!!!!Save me god~!!!

I am 16 yo boy!! In august last year, I met a gay friend who is 19yo.
My exposure is MSM oral sex (lasts 15 minutes) and French kiss(last 10minutes,but it's discontinuous 10 minutes)
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1.My kiss is extremely intense but not get visible blood from his mouth, and of course i swallow about 100ml his saliva (maybe less ).
2.Then we do Oral sex adulterated french kiss.!!! And I give him Oral sex and he ejaculate in my mouth.
After exposure my mouth feel a little ache.!!!

Afterwards. he get HIV in 2month ago before my exposure, and he is in window period.!!!!!
My Question is!!!!:
1.This forum is very bliss i like it!! It says receptive oral sex dose not transmission HIV with or without Ejaculating.
  But he is Acute HIV+, which means , he is very high virus and his saliva is very high load virus.
  CAN THIS INCREASE MY RISK FROM 0 TO 1?
2. I Swallow his Semen, will it cause me infected.???

I am so sorry that I have suspected Teak and LIZZI'S idea about Oral sex because I have these intense and extensive perfect ARS symptom!!
There is my ARS symptom:
  (1) Fever from 37.3-37.6 (last 2-3week)
  (2) Rash ( sometimes go and come again!!)
  (3)diarrhea(3times a day, lasts 3week)
  (4) losing weight (3 kg)
  (5)chogh (last untile now!)
  (6) Extremely Tired and Sleepy
And I know HIV means what to me!!I am only 16 years old I feel death despair and everything I love will get aways.
Every night I will get sleep with many many tears and I dare not to have a HIV Test in CDC.
pLS HELPME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I HOPE ALL IS WELL..
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1364665 tn?1291607092
" There is often a difference in the answers given by the docs in the expert forum vs us.  People have to understand that medical professionals and the CDC have a responsibility to be ULTRA conservative when discussing risks.  Therefore, there is a MINUTE "theoretical" risk assigned to oral sex.  If oral sex was TRULY a "real" risk, there would be new cases all the time of HIV being transmitted in this manner.  There absolutely is NOT.  And a "theoretical" risk is VERY different from an actual risk.  The docs have BOTH said time and time again in the expert forum that neither of them, in their combined DECADES of being specialists dealing with HIV have EVER seen a case of HIV as a result of oral sex, nor have they READ any convincing cases. "
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Move along. At no time did you have a risk of contracting HIV from oral sex and kissing.
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Listen to teak. Symptom don't mean anything. Oral sex mean no risk that what all the expert in this forum agree on.
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From my exposure I will be negative? Right? Or i might be positive because of risk?So bright to see your words to stupidmistaked2010.
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Sorry if i cause his undo anxiety. All I mean is that if he still not reassure by what all the expert in this forum told him would the negative test calm his anxiety and help him move on. Sorry if i do more harm than help.
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Move on. You didn't have a risk and telling people to test causes undo anxiety. .
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I get oral sex from positive person, and have a small wound under my penis after it done. 2 week after that i have a fever, big headache, diaharra, throw up and kinda white tongue too.My dentist told me my tongue is healthy too. I was scare as hell even expert told me no risk. I test negative at 5, 6, 8 and 10 week. I done with testing because i feel like i punish myself if i keep go to test. If you don't believe expert just go test at 8 week which is good indicate of your status if you decide to test again at 13 week. I done test, i just go live my life now.
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