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Erotic Massage.

Doctor, I am writing this will lot of worry and somehow I am not able to take advise from anybody.  To put in brief, I went to a soapy massage parlour in pattaya.  The masseuse came to the room and washed my body and penis with scrub and warm water (I did not opt for a full body bath in a tub).  Then there was a air bed were I was laid naked and water mixed with soap was poured on to me.  The masseuse also washed her vaginal area and gave me a body to body massage.  To my knowledge there was no genital contact and I rejected her offer to give me a  blow job.  I was lying down and she was giving me a massage with her body and I could feel her vagina rubbing my back.  Finally she gave me a handjob. We never had any penetrative sex (Anal, Vaginal or Oral) My concerns are as below.

1. Am I at risk of HIV

2. I had a rash on my back of shoulder after 2 weeks, it suddenly came and went off in 2 days without any marks. Raised temperature, but no high fever, No swollen lymph nodes. Ulcerations in throat (earlier I was diagnosed of GERD).  Is this a symptom of HIV.

3. Will HIV sustain in water and soap.

4. What could be the chances of getting infecting through her vaginal secretions oozing into my Anus while doing the massage.

5. Will HIV only pass through penetrative sex.

Doctor, Kindly answer this as its almost 30 days I am under stress after the unwarranted incident.

I remain

Ilarum


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I did a check in the Lister Metropolis for HIV-DUO by CMIA (4th generation test) on 24/05 which is 33 days after the incident.  The result came today as NON REACTIVE (0.18).  What does this mean and is the result conclusive.  Do you recommend a test after 3 months ?
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Hi Maash,  I am from Chennai. Thank you very much for your call 3 days back and efforts to build confidence on me to get tested.  I did a check in the Lister Metropolis for HIV-DUO by CMIA (4th generation test) on 24/05 which is 33 days after the incident.  The result came today as NON REACTIVE (0.18).  What does this mean and is the result conclusive.  Do you recommend a test after 3 months ?
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Antibodies/antigen test or DUO test or Combo test or ab/ag test.
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What is the technical name for this 4th Generation test.
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Thank you dears.. God bless you all
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There is nothing called HIV Rash , Google will always give wrong image. As per the study , RASH will come with high fever , yes you need to be hospitalized. Main part is , you don't have risk to worry about HIV.

If you still worrying , get one 4th gen test now and see your negative result.


DON'T Go to Dr GOOGLE.
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Thank you very much kind hearts - maash2281 & Faith13333.

Now I feel at ease and only bothered about point 2.  Just wanted to know how long will typically a HIV rash last.  My rash came suddenly on a night and went off in 2 days without leaving and scars.  And about the fever they talk about in forums - Will it be so high to get hospitalized ?
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1. Am I at risk of HIV - NO RISK

2. I had a rash on my back of shoulder after 2 weeks, it suddenly came and went off in 2 days without any marks. Raised temperature, but no high fever, No swollen lymph nodes. Ulcerations in throat (earlier I was diagnosed of GERD).  Is this a symptom of HIV. - Rash should be some allergic reaction, and there is no specific HIV symptoms.

3. Will HIV sustain in water and soap. - No way

4. What could be the chances of getting infecting through her vaginal secretions oozing into my Anus while doing the massage. - No Chance

5. Will HIV only pass through penetrative sex. - YES

You Dont have any risk for HIV.
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No risk your good
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No risk your good
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