Hello guys,
I have been worried so much and I am planning on going to a std clinic soon. I made a big mistake and will regret it for the rest of my life and I feel so depressed. On December 3rd, I performed oral sex on a mtf transsexual. She said she was tested and was disease free. A week and a half later. I started developing a mild headache for 3 days along with some neck pain. After my neck pain, I might have had a tender gland (not sure) for a day. I had no trouble swallowing, no sore throat, or other flu like symptoms. Two days later, I shaved and the area started burning a few hours later and I saw bumps on my neck that looked exactly like folliculitis. Some spots went away by the next day. Other spots took around 2 days to go away leaving some brown spots sort of like scars(im indian) where these former bumps were. I also noticed there was a painless white reddish bump in my inner lip in my mouth that looked like a chancre.I decided to wait for a week and a half before shaving with a new razor and now I'm seeing the same bumps again. Some of these bumps tingle/hurt when I touch them. I also noticed a rash on both of my shoulders and flat red spots over my chest and upper body. My hands are trembling so much Im in tears as I am afraid that I have contracted hiv and/or herpes or other stds. For the past 2 days, I have also had watery diarrhea. I bought an oraquick testing kit from cvs 2 days ago and did an oral swab test which tested negative. How accurate is oraquick? Is it possible that I got HIV? This is probably one of my main concerns. The bump in my inner lip has gotten smaller and I can barely feel it. Please answer,
While entities like the CDC (who are very conservative) apply a low risk to giving oral sex to a partner, most well schooled experts in HIV state that IF there is a risk, it's very insignificant, and wouldn't recommend testing.
You can take a DUO test, which will be conclusive at 28 days post exposure. It will be negative.
None of your symptoms are at all consistent with ARS.