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Extremely worried and terrified

hi, i am really worried and upset.
I had sex with an escort on 31st of may 2014. We started with some foul play and some massage on my back. She rubbed oil on my back and later massaged my butt with hers. Later on I performed oral on her unprotected for few mins while she was giving me an unprotected blowjob. A few mins later we had insertive vaginal sex protected with condom. For the first round i did not ejaculate and she took the condom off and kept it aside and we spooled together for sometime. During this I was rubbing my  bare penis between her butt cheeks and I am sure I did not  inserted her anus or vagina. i also fingured her during this activity. Later i put on a new condom and we had insertive vaginal sex again. This time I ejaculated inside her while wearing the condom. While I was about to take the condom off I wiped it with white tissue and noticed some spotting of blood on it. It was not a lot  but a few drops only  Infact it was also present on the first condom when later  I checked. I filled the two condoms with water to make sure that there was no leakage and there was none. The girl said that she was off her periods since last two or three days and when she wiped herself there were some blood also.  However there was no blood on the sheets.

Today after 34 hours  I went to an id speacilaist and explained the whole situation. He explained that since I was wearing a condom and infact it was intact i did not need to worry about the blood part. He although mentioned that there was a risk on the oral sex which I performed on her. He did some tests today( liver and kidney) and which also included hiv which came back negative. He asked me to start pep medication and gave
1) tenvir-em and 2) raltegravir

tenvir to be taken once in the morning and raltegravir twice, once morning and evening.

my questions to you
1) did my situation pose an hiv risk both while having protected insertive vaginal sex and non protected oral , considering the fact that blood might have come into my mouth during the oral part?

2) did this situation require pep medication? i have read so much here on oral sex as being of low risk and i fail to understand why i was prescribed pep for this.

3) what if i am unable to bear the side effects should i stop pep medication under the light of my risk or change my medication. I have loose stomach and do not want to end up having kindney or liver failures because of these strong medication.

Today I am having a white patch on my tongue, I have been previously diagnosed with lichen planus and I cannot seem to understand that if the white patch is oral thrush or lichen planus.
The situation that I described above giving oral ..can this be a cause or is it some sideffects of the PEP that I am taking.

Please Advice sincerely what to do, i am really terrified.

thanks
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You shouldn't have been given nPEP to begin with.
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Many thanks for your response.

Should i stop my PEP medication as its my 6 day today.

Can cunnilingus with menstrual blood cause the white patch? and if PEP is strong enough to cure it?
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You never had an exposure.
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