FREAKING OUT ABOUT HIV/AIDS!!!! HELP

[trainwreckromeo]

I had sex with a female that was currently homeless and traveling from one part of California to the other to stay at her friends house, anyways it lasted about 20 mins mostly protected but then about 13 mins in i took off the condom and finished "not inside her" i had also given her oral for about 6 minutes she is not known to have hiv but she claims to have had sex with 15 guys unprotected in her life but she said she tested negative for hiv affter the first 10 of them. i am circumcised but i have a larger urethra i think then normal guys. i was just wondering if there is any risk of me having something. and also most of the guys she slept with were prob homeless. i would think that i would more likely have something other then hiv but it has been a couple months and there is nothing on my penis.
and i also shave my pubic area. could that increase my risk of hiv transmission? i need any help i can get
i almost sure that im just freaking out over nothing.

p.s. she tested negative for clymidia

[nursegirl6572]

Bottom line is, like the others said...you put yourself at risk.  That you didn't "finish inside her" is irrelevant.  The overall odds are in your favor, as it is harder for female-male transmission, and b/c part of the encounter was protected.  HOWEVER, you still need to test.  Taking a standard antibody test at 3 months post exposure will give you a conclusive result.

From now on......use a condom CONSISTENTLY!  No ifs, ands or butts.  You have to protect yourself!

[ExtremeStress]

get tested 3 months past this encounter! it will be conclusive

[ILBRUTTO]

I have to ask you if any money changed hands or did she just have sex with you for some reason.

[Teak]

You don't play odds with HIV, it's not a horse race or a game of chance. You test get your results and go from there.

[trainwreckromeo]

i wasn't asking to be critised i was just asking for someone to let me know what the odds are that i was infected because there is not testing clinic in the middle of nowhere where i live.

[Teak]

You contract hiv and see if it seems like it was ok. You put yourself at risk so you will need to test.

[trainwreckromeo]

ya i know BAD move.. but eh it seemed ok at the time..

[Teak]

So you took the condom off that was protecting you so you could get an errection and you continued unprotected?

[trainwreckromeo]

I only used a condom for half of it i still had unprotected sex with her.
just to clear that up.

[trainwreckromeo]

i took the condom off mid way in due to the fact that i couldn't get it up.

[Teak]

You were never at risk of contracting HIV from having protected sex.