You were never at risk of contracting HIV from having protected sex.
i took the condom off mid way in due to the fact that i couldn't get it up.
I only used a condom for half of it i still had unprotected sex with her.
just to clear that up.
So you took the condom off that was protecting you so you could get an errection and you continued unprotected?
ya i know BAD move.. but eh it seemed ok at the time..
You contract hiv and see if it seems like it was ok. You put yourself at risk so you will need to test.
i wasn't asking to be critised i was just asking for someone to let me know what the odds are that i was infected because there is not testing clinic in the middle of nowhere where i live.
You don't play odds with HIV, it's not a horse race or a game of chance. You test get your results and go from there.
I have to ask you if any money changed hands or did she just have sex with you for some reason.
get tested 3 months past this encounter! it will be conclusive
Bottom line is, like the others said...you put yourself at risk. That you didn't "finish inside her" is irrelevant. The overall odds are in your favor, as it is harder for female-male transmission, and b/c part of the encounter was protected. HOWEVER, you still need to test. Taking a standard antibody test at 3 months post exposure will give you a conclusive result.
From now on......use a condom CONSISTENTLY! No ifs, ands or butts. You have to protect yourself!