Thank you, i am hoping for a good result. What makes me in doubt is he is so relaxed about it. First he mentioned it so my brain was already like TICK Tok and then when i am like i am stressed about this, he's like for what? i am like are you serious? so the fact he is not stressed makes me even more stressed.
Relax ! First of all please bear in mind the following facts
1. Risk of HIV transmission from a single isolated unprotected sex is not that high as we perceive.
2. There is a strong possibility that our partner with unknown health status may not be infected, therefore one can not give something he/she does not have
3. Not necessarily everyone can contract HIV in a single event of unprotected sex with an HIV+ partner. Many do dodge the bullet. :)
In your case, the first act was protected, so no risk at all. In the second attempt, he wanted to come unprotected, but it appears that he could not enter you properly and you also stopped him,,, good. This particular exposure does not put you at a significant risk.
However since you are not sure about the degree of penetration, and some risk is there if he managed to penetrate the head of his penis. Your risk is low, and I am sure you are fine and safe, therefore stop freaking out and calm down. Wait for another 3 weeks of so, get yourself tested for HIV Duo (Antibody+Antigen), collect your conclusive report and move on with your life. I expect you to get a Negative report.
sorry i meant to type people lie so i am really scared.....