No one is suggesting that you do not have real symptoms. They are simply telling you that whatever symptoms you are having are NOT due to HIV since you had no risk for HIV. Following up with your doctor or going to the ER is the best way to determine what is causing your non-HIV related illness.
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Studies have been done where one partner is HIV positive and the other isn't.
ALL those who used condoms did not pass hiv onto there partner. You're not the first. You tested anyway a month or 2 after this and was negative. If you were actually experiencing ARS you would have tested positive for hiv antibodies as this would be an indication of your bodies response to the virus.
You tested negative.
Search the archives for the Drs opinion about symptoms vs testing.
You wasted your time getting tested.
You can't get HIV when you use a condom.
All your symptoms are either in your head from fear of dying making you over-analyze your body, part of a cold that everyone gets 3 times a year, or else something your doctor can look at. No one can diagnose you here, other than you can't have HIV.