Vaginal fluid?

[isit]

WELL......
how do i start?

Incident :

i was with a girl (whom i picked from a bar),we went home(we were not drunk).

we kissed and caressed and she gave me oral sex,i did not wear a condom (is it safe?) then she touched her vagina and as it was wet she used her vaginal fluids and  rubbed me with it(touched my penis and my balls).i did not have any visible cuts on my penis and no bleeding,i am not sure about other area,as i am a civil engineer i am out in the sun most of the time so i sweat  alot in my pubic area and scratch my self a lot there due to which there are few cuts and tears.i am not sure if it was bleeding.(i did not see any blood on my balls though).

i am scared and very confused after googling abt this.
some say getting a blow job is a low risk and some say testing is warranted.
some say there is a risk as she used her vaginal fluid to rub my penis and balls(and the fact that i had cuts on my balls which were not bleeding though but yes cuts were there but not deep)

now you guys please help me out of this fear...do i need any kind of PEP or tests?

brief -  1) unprotected blow job from a bar pickup girl
          2) vaginal fluids touching my penis and testicles...testicles had cuts but no bleeding.
         3) i have heard that hiv virus stays active in the cervix of the vagina which is deeeeep inside and is got only when having sexual intercourse.

WHat advice?

[woyaoribii]

no risk at all

[meworried]

Better to avoid "down flow" of the "gush" into the "interiors", all made of mucus membrane. Until the "outer gates" there is no issue, since their "material of construction" does not allow the virus to invade. However, such "guarantee" does not remain valid past the "outer gates".

[lora18xoxo]

what about the other way around? can the girl catch hiv if hes ***/semen tuches her vagina?

[ExtremeStress]

you didn't state you had tested and also I didn't say you need to test. you are negative and don't have HIV. you weren't at risk to begin with and the 10 week negative solidifies it. If you continue to fear seek help. seeking help doesn't mean you are weak, it means you have come to road you can't cross alone. You are negative. happy holidays.

[meworried]

Your name for sure will not appear in Guinness Book of World  Records for being the first man on the planet catching infection this way.

What I suggest you to wear the following before having a good time with your friend

You : A pair of gloves, a condom, a "ball cover" (you need to think about it)
Her : Dental dam, gloves and female condom

I guess, then you can "enjoy" your good time

[isit]

Dude

i have been tested at like 10 weeks + with antibody test...it was negative

most people said no more testing needed

but i called the CDC and they said its recommended to test at 3 months or 12 weeks & then again  6 months.i am confused even more.

can a difference of like 12-13 days make a difference in ur status?(like i tested at 10 weeks +)

[ExtremeStress]

when we say no risk, it reference all things considered. we are not refering to one particular point of your incident. like I said. I am no longer going to question someones fear, becasue fear is a fear and it is hard to handle regardless of exposure. If you continue to be worried, get a test done. it will rid all doubts that you have. good luck!

[dummy123]

No risk - don't go down the road of "what if's". You certainly don't need PEP.

[isit]

no risk at all??

i thought so :)

mean even when she sucked me no risk?

even when she applied and rubbed her vaginal fluids on my penis and balls(balls had lil cuts but no bleeding)

ru u sure guys no tests required???

has anyone been infected in this way??

[ExtremeStress]

we are all going to tell you "no risk", but you will not listen. I didn't when I was scared and everyone else on here didn't either. Just know that we have all been in the same boat, regardless of incident and fear got a hold of us all. You will be safe and please take comfort in what we are saying. You were not at risk and HIV is not a problem for you from what you described. You will be o.k. Happy Holidays.

[joecool21]

i stoped reading when you mentioned ORAL. no risk just enjoy the holiday seasons and be safe.

[meworried]

No risk at all