This is what i've found from Dr. HHH MD reply
- Title: exposure in hot tub?
I don't know where you heard that "dipping" -- brief/superficial penile-vaginal (or penile anal) penetration -- is high risk. There are no data on it, but surely it is a lot lower risk for HIV than more complete vaginal sex. And even for that, i.e. typical unpotected sex for several minutes, the average HIV transmission risk, if the female partner has HIV, is once for every 2,000 events. That's why a) many spouses of HIV infected people remain free of HIV for many years and b) almost all heterosexual HIV infections occur in the regular partners of infected people. One-off exposures almost never result in HIV transmission. Why? HIV is pretty hard to transmit; it takes lots of virus that has to get into a place where there is prolonged contact with susceptible cells. Superficial and brief exposures don't make the grade.
Link:
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV---Prevention/exposure-in-hot-tub/show/1638596
Fourth, even if there was penetration, and even if she had HIV, the transmission risk from under a 1 second exposure is miniscule, probably zero or close to it. Finally, your vague symptoms don't sound like any STD and certainly cannot be due to a new HIV infection.
Title: Condom broke on "dipping" in Thailand
So from a risk assessment or medical perspective, there is no need for testing for HIV or other STDs. Of course you can always do that if this reassurance (and hers) doesn't completely settle your nervousness about it. But if I were in your situation, knowing what I know, I wouldn't be concerned and would not feel a need to be tested.
Link:
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV---Prevention/Condom-broke-on-dipping-in-Thailand/show/1188704
Do these 2 incidents same as mine? the amount for doctor advise is far too expensive in my home country which i could use for 2 weeks. So, i have no money for their advise.
Please help me!