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HIV Risk From Erotic Massage and Receiving Unprotected Oral Sex
I have a question: Last month, I went to an erotic massage parlor to get a massage and handjob. No other sexual activity occurred. Just ejaculate and she shower me. Then, I went again 2 weeks ago for another session. However, during this session, I sucked on her breast while she gave me a handjob. Didn't taste any breastmilk or see any cuts/scars on her breasts. That Saturday during the same week, I went out with my "girl with benefits" and we had protected sex for a couple of minutes (practicing abstinence for 7 months prior to the erotic massages) so I stopped, but she gave me oral sex. I didn't ejaculate so she stopped. I got nervous about her saliva being in my urethra, so I masturbated an hour later to ejaculate. The next morning, I started to urinate more frequently. A few days later, I started to experiencing tightness in my lower abdomen and lower back. Week after that, I start to experience some hot flashes, thinking I'm running a fever, but when I purchased a thermometer to check my temperature, it read 97.5...I've checked at least 3 times during a day. In addition, I'm now experiencing stomach cramps in the morning and periodically during the day, but no diarrhea. I got a STD test done on Tuesday and they found that leukocytes were found in my urine, not a high level...they question me if I was drinking enough water. My question is: is it possible that I've been exposed to HIV? The condom was intact during our sexual experience, but I'm more worried about the erotic massages. Could I have put myself in risk of HIV. Also, I see no abnormalities in my genital area and the doctor said the same. I'm so nervous that I might have contracted HIV from either party. My lady friend said that in the past she was in the beginning stages of possibly developing cervical cancer so the first thing I asked her is she HPV positive. She told me that it's hereditary because her aunt also developed cervical cancer and she didn't have it when tested.
Thank you for all your help.
Thank you for all your help.
maybe post in another forum...coz you are done with the hiv forum!
but for my money, you are suffering from post anxiety...i reckon once you put this hiv thang behind you, you'll be fine. focus on other things, exercise, socialise , read, go for walks. etc. you get the picture.
but for my money, you are suffering from post anxiety...i reckon once you put this hiv thang behind you, you'll be fine. focus on other things, exercise, socialise , read, go for walks. etc. you get the picture.
Okay,so my test came back negative, but experiencing some other symptoms, such as tightness in my back and groin. Also, feeling pinching pains under my neck,throat region. In addition, I have a raised lymph node on the back of my neck, right side. About the size of a pea and it's tender.Since my test was negative, should I still contact my physician? I was on the antibioticsl, Levaquin, and don't know if these are side effects. I finished my medication 10 days ago
Test results came back...everything is normal! Praising God right now for giving me another chance to do right! Anxiety can be very tricky on the body. Thank you everyone for their input and God blessed!!!
it's not hiv or an std, sounds like a stomach bug. there are plenty of other virus around that are spread far more easily than hiv. you are fine.
I'm still dealing with stomach nausea after one week...worst in the morning, but not vomiting or diarrhea has occurred. This is an unusual feeling, but at least my hot flashes stopped. Should I still be concerned of HIV or any other STD? I tested last week Tuesday and have yet to be contacted
hot flushes - sound like panic attacks brought on by unwarranted anxiety about hiv which you don't have.
Also, I've read that Hot flashes for men could be an indication of the body working hard to fight a virus, such as HIV and tuberculosis. I've never in my life experienced hot flashes until after this instance and that's why I'm extremely worried. Just trying to get as much feedback prior to my blood test results come back
Thank y'all for the insight. Have the both of you ever experienced any type of these symptoms after having sex? Its never racking to me...
Is it possible that vaginal fluid can somehow enter the penis even with a condoms on? When I pulled out, the condomn is still intact. It's just ironic that after a couple of days passed from having sex, I'm dealing with stomach nausea and abdominal pain. I pray its not HIV! SO FREAKED OUT!
it's not hiv, i cannot see any way of hiv getting into your body from the activities you described.
Just very stressful. Feels like I'm getting really hot, but not running a fever. Just scared that if I got an infection and my body is trying to fight it off, the main STD that comes to mind is HIV.I just pray to God that my past sexual urgencies don't deter my future...
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