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Hi guys I have been reading.the. Forums.but didnt really sign up. Anyway thanks to all the experts in these fields and the drs for helping.

I have a clarification hence my asking. I just.had.an encounter where the riskiest was receiving and giving unprotected oral. I know from reading other thrreads that oral is of negligible risk.

However.my. Situation is that I am uncircumcised and in the moment received it. I also gave cunnilingus and halfway through.i remembered I had phlegm.

This phlegm im not.sure if it.was from an unprotected oral I received 2 weeks ago. For 5 days I have been.sneezing and had watery stools and frequent.the.toilet at most.3 times a day. Are these symptoms a cause for.concern? Thanks
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Your safe.You are not going to contract hiv from grinding,fingering is a zero risk situation aswell.You can relax,you have nothing to worry about.
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186166 tn?1385259382
what part of everything we've told you are you having trouble comprehending?  seriously !
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Okay sincerely thank you and really one final question. When I was doing it, I heard the sound of the base of the condom like moving along the skin ? I think it was like if you wore a glove and you pull the base and you release and it sort of snaps to your skin? that kind of sound.

I did not think of that and during the act it was kinda hot so I sort of lost the drive and pulled out, I didn't notice any ejaculate inside (maybe because i couldn't? because after about 2 mins of cleaning up, i was up and ready again so I probably didn't ejaculate).

However, the condom seemed intact though just because i lost the drive so the condom was just sort of shrinky. She helped me remove it and if it was torn i'm sure she would have noticed. It didn't break right?
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186166 tn?1385259382
not hiv related.

kindly move along...you do not have a hiv concern.
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okay so then phew. either way unprotected oral is safe right? I have these like bumps on my shoulders and back but it's not itchy just there :X
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It was concluded that James had possibly been infected while engaging in unprotected anal sex with Brazilian actress Bianca Biaggi during a scene for the video Split That Booty 2 in Rio de Janeiro.
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186166 tn?1385259382
NO HE DID NOT !
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She is porn star :) she has not been infected from oral sex :)
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Okay Liz so sorry but i read somewhere that some people got it from oral? The case of Darren James (though he was porn star and got it during a gay scene from unprotected oral?)
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186166 tn?1385259382
GO TO A DOCTOR AND NOT A FORUM.

YOU HAD NO RISK FOR CONTRACTING HIV - THIS FORUM HAS NOTHING LEFT TO OFFER ! ! !
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Please teak pls help It's been a week and there is still rash on my hand (mainly on my left finger where it's most prominent) it isn't itchy just that the finger is riddled with these tiny raised bumps (not red) just looks like the skin has some tiny bumps. ?? It's on the other fingers too but not as obvious the index is most obv
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okay right after my message I had some rash on my other foot and today just noticed this small pimple like bump on my lower lip. It's not a risk right? the unprotected oral (i'm uncircumcised) has me more worried i guess. Fingering and Cunnilingus are of no risks?
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186166 tn?1385259382
YOU HAD NO RISK ! ! ! ! ! ! !
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thanks Lizzie some rash just erupted on top of my right foot is that a worry?
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186166 tn?1385259382
re-read what you've been told.

kindly move along...you do NOT have a hiv concern
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okay thank you Teak just wanna confirm I had some some rashes on my hands (looks like allergic reaction). It's not itchy it's just those tiny bumps that can be uncomfortable. I had quite a few amount of alcohol last night (and this has happened before in the past when I drank wine) so it's most likely allergy and not anything else right ? thanks
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No risk.
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Sorry yea final doubt. Fingering is.not a risk for Hiv right? Because I fingered her for about 4.mins quite fast pace and really inserted in. And she gave me unprotected oral for about 4 secs. Im uncircumcised
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You're not understanding.  NO symptom you come up with will be related to HIV because you NEVER had a risk.  Time to move on...
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Hey nick sorry I understand but a last question. For about 3 - 4 days now I had like these small sores/bumps on my lip. Just about 2 hours ago I noticed another one forming on my lip (looks like a tiny pimple with those tiny yellowish coating on top). It doesn't hurt just that it's annoying in a way because when I suck on my lip I can feel it. Is it a cause for worry?
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You had NO RISK, Your symptoms are not do to HIV Period!
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oh so sorry but I had this like heat rash on exact spot on my neck (exactly above the lymph node). now it doesn't irritate anymore. However i just found another one on my thigh. But it's just 1 red dot and it doesn't hurt (wouldn't know if i didn't see it)

Is it a cause for concern? or just heat rash? (was walking around pretty much in jeans and it was hot so could be i guess..)
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Thanks getitright77! I guess it was just paranoia because lately my sore throat hasn't healed and I had some mouth ulcers. Guess it was just paranoia and over-reacting. Thanks once again!
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