Assad 100 ! The poster is a male, and when he talks about his "boyfriend", naturally the first thing in anyone's mind comes "anal sex" because boys are not "fitted" with vagina, are they?
So Lizzie is right in writing her response, particular to this specific case. Otherwise read all other responses from her, she has been telling more than many times that unprotected anal and vaginal sex are the only routes of transmission of HIV when it comes to sexual routes.
sounds like mono to me.
if you have not had unprotected anal sex, then you should have nothing to worry about.