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HIV from handjob with blood! Help me!

Dear Experts here,

I am very grateful to all the members here for their help. Thank you!

Last week, I went to the massage parlor and the girl wanted to offer me vaginal sex but i turned her offer down. She gave me a sensation massage and gave me a handjob. She did the handjob very vigorously until i ejaculated and i told her to stop.

When i hot home, i checked my penis and my underwear, i saw some blood stains in my underwear, and my penis was painful. I was scared since i did not check her hands to see whether there were blood or bleeding wounds in her hands or not, and I think that i could catch HIV from her. I am afraid that some blood in her hands would come to my body via urethra.

I have read some similar topics in this forum and i understand that the risk for me was quite low since HIV was once outside the body. But I had some blood stains left in my underwear, that was so scared.

Please help me. I am scared to death!

Thanks a lot!
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No it would not change the answer.

HIV is unable to reproduce outside its living host (unlike many bacteria or fungi, which may do so under suitable conditions), except under laboratory conditions; therefore, it does not spread or maintain infectiousness outside its host.
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HIV is unable to reproduce outside its living host (unlike many bacteria or fungi, which may do so under suitable conditions), except under laboratory conditions; therefore, it does not spread or maintain infectiousness outside its host.

You never had an exposure.
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Dear Teak,

i am still scared because i saw blood stains in my underwear, it mean that her hands had fresh blood.

You mean that HIV is not infectious once it is outside its host, so, the blood from her hands were not infectious because HIV was outside her body before it entered my body, right?

And masturbation or getting handjob with fresh cut and blood from her hands or fingers was still not a risk, right?

Thanks for your patience.
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Dear Teak,

Thanks for your prompt reply, did you mean that no risk of HIV infection even her hands were drenched with blood when she was giving me handjob?

I understand that masturbation is not a risk of HIV infection, but if her hands had fresh blood, can the answer change?

Thank a lot!
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HIV is not transmitted by masturbation.
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