Had a sex course with a lady which is a 'freelance'. Seeking advice..

[WeiShen]

Greetings.. Fellows forum user and doctors...
Recently i had a sex with a lady that does that sort of 'things' that introduced by my friends.. The thing was.. I was quite worried after the sex and i been searching for forums about HIV diseases / STDs that is possible to be transmitted during the sex intercourse..
I been feeling weird after the sex and keep on obsessing that i feel i might have AIDS.. Its been my first time having sex and i wanted to seek knowledge about the disease that can be transmitted during sex intercourse..
A) My question was.. can HIVs or STDs be transmitted during the blow job and vagina licking process ? She gave a blow job to me without me wearing a condom and would HIV or STDs be transmitted during the process ? and i gave to her too  by licking her vagina as well.. She was all wet.. i dunno whats that is called.. some sort of water she produced when she feels high.. So..would HIV or STDs be transmitted during both of the process ?
I was so confused about the forums answer and i hoped that somebody can guide me and tell me whether it can be transmitted..
B) After that i toyed her vagina with my fingers .. there was a deep wound on one of my fingers that i plugged into his vagina.. I read that HIVs can be transmitted via the cut or open wound ? it was a open wound.. Can it be transmitted ?
C) We french kissed from the beginning until the end and she blows me sometime during the sex with the condom taken off and we kissed again.. but i wear a new condom afterwards and continue to have sex with her.. Does a HIV positive person can transmit HIVs / STDs by french kissing ?
D) I wear condoms during the sex course and i shaved my pubic hair before we had sex.. there was a few razor cut wounds.. Since i mentioned that cutting wounds are fatal and HIV can get through it.. Is it possible?
D) After a while..I reached climax and ejaculated into her mouth as she wanted and she blows me again for quite a time until she let me go.Does HIV or STDs transmitted to me that time ?

There are too many answers on many forums i searched and i wish that someone who is professional in HIV or STDs prevention/ infection can tell me about it.. Im a bit slow on my english and im a total idiot in HIV or STDs prevention.. and i wanted to apologize for it.. Im sorry..Hope you guys can help me. Im really confused and had problem sleeping everynight...

[WeiShen]

Thanks Teak, lets assume she is HIV positive.. there would be no exposure as well as all of the process i mentioned above ? Probably there is a chance of having STDs transmitted but there are no HIV exposure is it ?
And assume that she have the presence of her blood in her mouth or vagina.. Does HIV or STDs can be transmitted by the ways of blowing job given by her and vagina lick given by me ?
I searched and some forums said that there are actually chances of HIV be transmitted during the process due to the presence her of blood.. but if i have no open wounds in my mouth and i licked her vagina.. there wouldnt be any exposure to HIV is it ? Because the virus cnt get through my mouth? Will it goes through my throat ?
What about when she giving me a Blow in the penis ? I was circumcised and the head of my penis is greatly exposed to her mouth... Can the disease be transmitted through my penis during the process ?

Im sorry if i asked too much.. Somehow im afraid that she had the presence of her blood in her mouth or open wounds in her vagina.. Well, Freelance hooker...
I must thank you again.. hope you will reply soon..

[Teak]

You never had an exposure.

HIV is unable to reproduce outside its living host (unlike many bacteria or fungi, which may do so under suitable conditions), except under laboratory conditions; therefore, it does not spread or maintain infectiousness outside its host.

HIV is transmitted by;
Unprotected penetrative anal and/or vaginal sex
Sharing works with other IV drug abusers
Mother to child