Hi everyone, I hope you are doing fine, its been a long time since I visited MedHelp. Ive been having a normal sexual life protecting myself always and I managed to overcome my anxiety and fears due to HIV risks thanks to MedHelp forums in the past. Now, heres my question, even though im trying not to stress to much about it, im a little worried. 2 weeks ago I had sex with 2 sex workers in a threesome, different condoms with vaginal intercourse, I asked a very similar question years ago but this time something different happened. I finished sexual intercourse with the first woman, with the second one we had intercourse until I ejaculated, we were both facing down and I was on top of her laying on her back, when I finished and pulled out the condom slipped and remained inside her, she was more freaked out than I was, I was trying to see what exactly happened but she jumped out of the bed very fast and went to the bathroom to check with her friend if the condom was broken, the good thing is that it didnt broke and my semen was all in there, then they chilled because they were very scared. I washed my self up, we all got dressed and left. I chilled for a couple of hours but then it got me thinking that I was exposed at some risk, even if its low, I know for sure that when I was inside her I was protected, it was the moment when I pulled out when I was exposed but I dont know for sure if some of her fluids got into my genitals, more specific my penis because I dont have any sort of cuts or sores around that area. I went to emergencies at 3am and told the doctor what happened, he told me that I had to start PREP meds inmediately, that my risk was very high and had to check my blood and everything, well.. that didnt help, I was very scared and when he started to talk about the side effects and all the hell my body was about to suffer for a month I declined and didnt took them, he asked me if I was sure, that I had to sign some papers and I coud leave under my own risk. I left that day and since then ive been wondering if I should have take the PREP...I know I have to wait a couple weeks more to have a test and know if Im good or not but I would like a little mind peace until then. I havent had any sort of relevant symptoms, just a little stiff neck, my glands around my jaw feels like if they were going to sore or something, little sore throat and thats it. I appreciate your attention and your kind answers. Have a great day
As far as fluids getting on your genital, I am CERTAIN you know by now that that is not a risk for HIV. That is your anxiety talking, so I am not going to elaborate.
You had no risk for HIV. You have many, MANY posts here. I'm not sure why you keep putting yourself in these situations when it seems to stress you out about HIV every time.