HIV risk?

[stupidquestion]

please help

im a heterosexual female and a few weeks ago i had unprotected oral sex with a boy i've known for a year, but am not very close with.  we almost had unprotected anal, his penis came very close to penetrating me and there was precome present.  my question is, is it possible for me to have been infected from his precome if it didnt actually get inside me, but was very evident near my anus and vagina? he was grinding on me so his penis was pushing at both entrances.  sorry for the grafic question...lol.  

i'm not sure if it matters, but he told me before that he had been tested and was negative and that he's paranoid about it, so he gets tested all the time.  he's promiscuous, so i can believe that he's paranoid.  

also, we're college students.  not sure that that matters, either

thank you to anyone who answers.  im very anxious

[stupidquestion]

thank you guys so much for responding. you make me feel much better.

[mike_no]

girl, your chances of getting infected is very very very very very very...low, infact near impossible, for your peace of mind get tested at the 3 month mark, thats again if you'd really want to.....and remember it's very important to play safe, dont forget the rubber next time

[Confused about HIV risk]

I agree with the replies... 1 in a billion chance of infection

[sparkeler]

Relax.  You have no real reason to be affraid you were infected with hiv.  Unprotected oral carries close to no risk & you didn't engage in penetration.  I doubt his pre *** leaped off of his penis and into your *** hole.  I don't care how close his penis was to that area.  

[gates85]

You basically had a zero-risk exposure. Oral transmission of HIV hardly ever happens, if it happens at all, and the guy probably didn't have HIV anyway. HIV among heterosexual college students is vanishingly low, despite some of the horror stories you've probably heard. Also, even if he were infected, it would take a lot more than a small amount of his precum coming into contact with the anal cavity to actually infect you. You did not have anal sex, so there were no cuts or abrasions created for HIV to enter your body anyway.

You odds of contracting HIV from the exposure you describe are non-existent(1 in many hundreds of billions, seriously) and you don't need an HIV test.