Help me! I am very scared!

[i_am_scared_234]

Dear the Forum,

Thanks for everyone here. You are helping people and i am very grateful to all of you.

I am very scared now! Yesterday, one of my friend and i went to the strip club and we invited one girl out for some drink. After some bottles, she offered the oral sex but we refused. But i agreed to get hand job from her.

She took us to the room, it was dark and she performed hand job to all of us. I mean my friend and i received hand job from her at the same time. After some minutes, i realized that her fingers were wet, and i suddenly saw that her fingers were soaked with semen, i could not believe that she used one hand to do the hand job for two of us, the another hand she fingered her self.

I was scared, i realised that after my friend ejaculated into her hand, she used the same hand to masturbate me.. Assuming that my friend was poz, could i catch HIV from getting hand job with a hand soaked with semen?

Please help me!

Thanks for your patience and your time!

[i_am_scared_234]

Thank you, Lizzie!

From the similar and old stories here, i understand that Hiv is a very weak virus, and Hiv transmits INSIDE the body, like vaginal or anal intercourses. One it is outside the body, it become unable to infect.

So, i think i can add this thing, pre-cum or semen can be used as lube, and no risk of HIV  from this. In my story, that girl maybe used the semen of my friend to lubricate my penis or her vagina. This was ..scary! But no risk of HIV, right?

[LIZZIE LOU]

hiv is transmitted through...
unprotected vaginal / anal intercourse
sharing iv drug works
mother to child

hiv is not transmitted outside it's host.  once exposed to air it becomes inactive and unable to infect.

you had no risk and do not need testing.

[i_am_scared_234]

Hi all,

Thanks for your prompt relies, i am very happy to have the answers from the two prestigeous members of this forum.

May i add one more thing? When she was performing the handjob, she sat on my knee, she was totally nude. Her vaginal contacted my knee, i am worried because i had some arbasions and cuts on my knee. Could i catch HIV from the abrasions, cuts and some scratches on my knee? I am afraid that her body fluids ( even mestrual blood) could enter my body via abrasions, cuts...

Please be patient with me! Thank you!

[LIZZIE LOU]

that was NOT additional information.

from your original post:

I was scared, i realised that after my friend ejaculated into her hand, she used the same hand to masturbate me.. Assuming that my friend was poz, could i catch HIV from getting hand job with a hand soaked with semen?

[i_am_scared_234]

Dear Lizzie Lou,

Thanks for your reply, but i have one more question. My friend ejaculated into her hands and that girl immediately used that hand to masturbate me, could this additional information change the answer? I rememer that her hand was wet, i mean that her hand covered with semen.

I am worried now, thanks for your help!

[LIZZIE LOU]

once exposed to air, hiv becomes inactive and unable to infect.

you had NO risk.