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Help me please
I'm bisexual. I had two high risk experience.
First, I had sex with a man from internet. I was the bottom. He tried to have anal sex with me, but it too hurt and I can stand it. So he gave it up. Then we had oral sex for each other. Finally, he had ejaculation in my mouth. I felt so awful then I spat it out as soon as I could.
Second, two weeks later, I had sex with another man. I was the top. I tried to have anal sex with a condom. But I was too hard to get in, so I gave it up. Then we had oral sex but no ejaculation this time.
I had a cold after 3 days away from my second risk. But I didn't had a fever. My nose was stuffy, and then getting better. But it's still a little bit stuffy in the morning even it's
already 2 months. I had twice bowl movement and my stomach was gurling. Five weeks later from my second risk, my neck and arms were itching sometime ( twice or three times a day). One or two pimples appeared on my neck. The doctor said I have sensitive skin, was so stressed and the weather was too hot at that time.
I did my HIV test in Canada. Four times so far. It's third generation test. The first test I did is 5 weeks away from my first high risk and amolst 3 weeks away from my second high risk. My second test is 6 weeks away from my first high risk and 4 weeks away from my second high risk. My third test is 9 weeks away from my first high risk and 7 weeks away from my second high risk.
All the results are negtive. I also did 9 weeks away from the second risk and can get the result next week.(It's 12 weeks away from my first risk)
I feel so guilty about what I did. And I'm very worried about myself. I swear I will never do this again.
Do you think my two risks were very high ? Do you think I need more tests ?
Please give me some advice. Thank you very much!
First, I had sex with a man from internet. I was the bottom. He tried to have anal sex with me, but it too hurt and I can stand it. So he gave it up. Then we had oral sex for each other. Finally, he had ejaculation in my mouth. I felt so awful then I spat it out as soon as I could.
Second, two weeks later, I had sex with another man. I was the top. I tried to have anal sex with a condom. But I was too hard to get in, so I gave it up. Then we had oral sex but no ejaculation this time.
I had a cold after 3 days away from my second risk. But I didn't had a fever. My nose was stuffy, and then getting better. But it's still a little bit stuffy in the morning even it's
already 2 months. I had twice bowl movement and my stomach was gurling. Five weeks later from my second risk, my neck and arms were itching sometime ( twice or three times a day). One or two pimples appeared on my neck. The doctor said I have sensitive skin, was so stressed and the weather was too hot at that time.
I did my HIV test in Canada. Four times so far. It's third generation test. The first test I did is 5 weeks away from my first high risk and amolst 3 weeks away from my second high risk. My second test is 6 weeks away from my first high risk and 4 weeks away from my second high risk. My third test is 9 weeks away from my first high risk and 7 weeks away from my second high risk.
All the results are negtive. I also did 9 weeks away from the second risk and can get the result next week.(It's 12 weeks away from my first risk)
I feel so guilty about what I did. And I'm very worried about myself. I swear I will never do this again.
Do you think my two risks were very high ? Do you think I need more tests ?
Please give me some advice. Thank you very much!
I really need some insight on this situation. I have been really stressed lately thinking of my chances of being infected. I went and got tested but I went to early. The test results I go were negative. I had a second high risk encounter when I performed unprotected oral sex with a different female and protected vaginal sex. I have been feeling really bad these last few weeks. Can someone help me please?
Ok explain the lower back pain, fever, loss of appetite,fatigue,headache,chills,night sweats,and lack of energy?
I had my a one time high risk encounter with a bisexaul female about 6 weeks ago. We had protected sex. I do have genital herpes just so you know. I have been experiencing ars symptoms for about three weeks now. What are the chances that I'm infected?
WOW.....Canada let you test that much....I tried a long time ago but they refused to test me all the time cause my risk was low like yours. Where in canada do you live, if in toronto go to hassle free clinic as they are the only place to offer the rapid test at this time. Even phone them they have been around from day one of the HIV crisis, they will tell you to move on...trust me.
just test 3 months from the last encounter....whenever that date was.
no real penetration I see.
So that is a good thing.
Good Luck.
Dr. H will tell you to test when Saturn's 8th moon is in the left sky and Jupiter is facing east. He is a crack pot.
no real penetration I see.
So that is a good thing.
Good Luck.
Dr. H will tell you to test when Saturn's 8th moon is in the left sky and Jupiter is facing east. He is a crack pot.
Unless you had open sores (i.e. herpes) than maybe it's a possibility, still even a very low risk because the saliva kills the virus before it can even reach your blood stream. Trust me your negative. HIV is not your problem, you have nothing to worry about :)
I know oral sex in not high risk , but he had ejaculation in my mouth. Is that still low risk?
Thank you!
Thank you!
Oral sex is no risk and your tests prove that you didn't get HIV. You need penetration to acquire HIV. "Trying to put it in" doesn't account for penetration, therefore there was no HIV risk there either.
Don't feel guilty, just relax, your risk wasn't high and you don't need anymore testing.
Don't feel guilty, just relax, your risk wasn't high and you don't need anymore testing.
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