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Help with HIV possibility!
Hi, I've been currently reading as much as I can in this forum about the risk of HIV from sex.
I would greatly appreciate any help and insights from ppl in this community to tell me my risk of contracting HIV.
This is an account of what happened.
About a month ago, I was in Thailand. I met this dancer in a disco and had a couple of jugs with her. Later that night, we went to a hotel and had sex 3 (THREE) times. All of which was protected. During the act, she gave me oral blowjob before wearing a condom over my penis for the penetration. After penetration for 5mins or so, I retracted my penis but I have not achieve ejaculation. She oralled me a minute or 2 while the condom was on, before removing it to finish the job without the condom. All 3 times was the same and i ejaculated in her mouth.
3weeks since the incident, I have been diagnose with HPV. The warts are visible and cauliflower like and it is freaking the hell out of me. My doctor said that it is nothing really serious and there are treatment for it. However, he warned me about the risk of HIV in Thailand and every since then, I am unable to sleep well or eat. The doctor has instructed me to come back for a blood test 6 months after the exposure to confirm my HIV status.
My questions here should be very clear. (1) Given the circumstances above, what are my risk of HIV being contracted? I thought my sex was protected (Durex Extra Safe Condoms). My life seems to be falling apart now. I am 24 atm and I must say in all my life, I have never visited any prostitute or had sex outside a monogamous relationship. In addition, I do feel a pulsating pain on my balls but my lymph nodes doesn't seem to be swollen 1 month after the exposure. Could this be symptoms of HIV or is it due to HPV? Can someone please help me identify or analyse my situation. I worried that vagina fluid on the condom after retracting may have passed into her mouth orally and pass into my penis after the oral sex was continued with the condom removed. Are my chances of getting HIV higher than because I contracted HPV from this girl?
To summarize my questions,
(1) Given the circumstances above, what are my risk of HIV being contracted?
(2) Could this be symptoms of HIV or is it due to HPV (Pulsating pain in balls)?
(3) Are my chances of getting HIV higher than because I contracted HPV from this girl?
Thx so much for all the replies. I know the value of life now and I beg God for a chance to live my life straight again.
I would greatly appreciate any help and insights from ppl in this community to tell me my risk of contracting HIV.
This is an account of what happened.
About a month ago, I was in Thailand. I met this dancer in a disco and had a couple of jugs with her. Later that night, we went to a hotel and had sex 3 (THREE) times. All of which was protected. During the act, she gave me oral blowjob before wearing a condom over my penis for the penetration. After penetration for 5mins or so, I retracted my penis but I have not achieve ejaculation. She oralled me a minute or 2 while the condom was on, before removing it to finish the job without the condom. All 3 times was the same and i ejaculated in her mouth.
3weeks since the incident, I have been diagnose with HPV. The warts are visible and cauliflower like and it is freaking the hell out of me. My doctor said that it is nothing really serious and there are treatment for it. However, he warned me about the risk of HIV in Thailand and every since then, I am unable to sleep well or eat. The doctor has instructed me to come back for a blood test 6 months after the exposure to confirm my HIV status.
My questions here should be very clear. (1) Given the circumstances above, what are my risk of HIV being contracted? I thought my sex was protected (Durex Extra Safe Condoms). My life seems to be falling apart now. I am 24 atm and I must say in all my life, I have never visited any prostitute or had sex outside a monogamous relationship. In addition, I do feel a pulsating pain on my balls but my lymph nodes doesn't seem to be swollen 1 month after the exposure. Could this be symptoms of HIV or is it due to HPV? Can someone please help me identify or analyse my situation. I worried that vagina fluid on the condom after retracting may have passed into her mouth orally and pass into my penis after the oral sex was continued with the condom removed. Are my chances of getting HIV higher than because I contracted HPV from this girl?
To summarize my questions,
(1) Given the circumstances above, what are my risk of HIV being contracted?
(2) Could this be symptoms of HIV or is it due to HPV (Pulsating pain in balls)?
(3) Are my chances of getting HIV higher than because I contracted HPV from this girl?
Thx so much for all the replies. I know the value of life now and I beg God for a chance to live my life straight again.
but the head of my penis was indeed exposed to vaginal fluid since the oral happened with the condom intact and taken off... + my test result jst came back positive for HSV2... Does this mean that if i gotten HSV2 the virus that entered my body also may contain the HIV virus which means that im infected with HIV as well? the HSV2 blisters appear on the penis shaft where the condom WAS protecting.....
I do remember some degree of condom slippage during my 5 minuet fiasco,During 3 hard thrusts i felt my penis move about just over an inch to and from the tip of the condom.It was not fully errect at the beginning.I fear this to have been the cause of my problems.
Hey, I also regretted my actions.. I pray everyday to God that he will spare me of the death sentence... In life I nvr visited a prostitute b4 and this was really my 1st ONS and I'm 24... The guilt and shame in me now is very obvious.....
Please Teak, given my circumstances, what are my chances of HIV? My anxiety grew as I did get an STD from that girl... I dunno what is Jojo or STUP problem... but plz, plz plz help me
Please Teak, given my circumstances, what are my chances of HIV? My anxiety grew as I did get an STD from that girl... I dunno what is Jojo or STUP problem... but plz, plz plz help me
ya im realy in limbo,i just cant wait that 3 months out...im praying dude, in 2 weeks i will go for another elizer (6 weeks suspected post exposure) this is torturous....i am trying to find solace in my negative pcr...but all sorts of stuff is said about that test,doctors have told me this and that...i have nothing tangable...all i want is for God to give me one last chance........i was so stupid, dude we need to comfort each other-this has been the most horendous month of my exsistance.There is not enough information ot there.I should NEVER have indulged!
I dunno how safe a condom really is now.... im having doubts and waiting for a 3 months window period is now driving me mad..... i definitely got an STD from the girl... but what im really worried is did i get HIV? OMG OMG OMG!!!!!~
Dude im in the same predicament, i used a condom on a protitute in africa but i have two small yellow bumps on my frenulum, one doctor suspects hpv the other thinks its nothing to worry about, they are not cauliflower like but what are they doing there?especially right after the encounter-i am dead scared of hiv, i had elizer tests and a pcr 25 days after(which came back negative)-i wish i never did what i did it was so stupid-ive had oral thrush, fever,chills, night sweat,joint pain, tender lymph nodes- i feel like im in real trouble and just want to know where i stand.My dr seems to have faith in the pcr but we in todays world we have learnerd drs who arent so sure.No one can give me a clear answer on how effective a pcr is.....i am in limbo...
I think herpes and HPV are different things.. but thx for ur insight and ur advise... I guess theres nothing much i can do now beside hoping for the best.. i need to wait before i can get a blood test done.
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Dear Carlo007.! I appreciate your wisdom that you used protection. , 1. you did not have sex with her unprotected. Since your protection did not fail during the intercourse, your are safe. Herpes however can be picked up through oral contact.
2. This is not an HIV symptom.
3. After you contracted Herpes, yes chances of getting HIV are relatively higher for you than a person who is Herpes negative, under a similar kind of exposure, However please note that this does not apply on your previous exposure. I am talking about for next time.
2. This is not an HIV symptom.
3. After you contracted Herpes, yes chances of getting HIV are relatively higher for you than a person who is Herpes negative, under a similar kind of exposure, However please note that this does not apply on your previous exposure. I am talking about for next time.
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