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Fingering and vaginal fluid

Hi, I had an encounter with a prostitute who was infected with HIV (which I came to know later) 2 weeks back. I did fingering deep in her vagina for two minutes. then I took out my fingers and immideately rubbed my penis head with those fingers. Later I noticed my penis head was full of vaginal fluid. I even ejaculated on the vaginal fluid. Am I at the risk of infection. Please help me. Im dying inside.
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You are safe from HIV so should stop dying inside with worry and are so safe that you don't even need to test.

HIV is instantly inactivated in air which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from fingering or any sexual activity outside the vagina or anus. It doesn't matter if you and they were bleeding or wet with her fluids at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead.
Only adult risks are unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal sex or sharing needles that you inject with but you didn't do that so you had no risk.
Even with blood, lactation cuts, rashes, burns etc air does not allow inactivated virus to infect from fingering or any sexual activity outside the vagina or anus. The above HIV science is 40 years old and very well established so nothing you can add will make it a risk.
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thanks a lot. but the fingering part is bothering me. I inserted my fingers so deep that i reached her cervix. is there a risk ?
It doesn't infect through the fingers. You are safe, if you reread the part about the 40.
Thanks. But after 20 days from that incident, now I have a soar thoat from the past 3 days. Please help me. Im getting helpless again.
You interact with others who have sore throats and colds, so catching one at any time is to be expected. HIV is not diagnosed from symptoms, and just reread the part about the 40.
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As our member has stated, fingering is not a risk for transmitting HIV.  We are now closing this discussion as HIV is not a consideration.

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