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i read many about hiv infection from oral sex. a girl performed oral sex for me about 5 weeks ago and ejaculated in her mouth on 2 different occasions within 2 days. i can confirm that i had a cut on my penis head but was not bleeding (at least no visible blood). i am not sure she had a bleeding in her gums or in the mouth. she told me that she is clean but, i dtartef seing following symptoms exactly 3 weeks afer last exposure.

1. swollen lymp node under my left armpit and left cheek. only two nodes were swollen in total. those were not ver big in size and was not visible from outside. it was howevr painful from inside.
2. same period i also had low grafe fever. fever lasted about 5 days. i did not tske any medicines gor the fever as it was very low gradw.
3. muscle pain on my left leg and parts of my shoulder and neck. still continues as of yoday though in a different propoyion.
4. a dot like white bumps appeared under my armpit. it was mildly itchy and the area was not red in color.

my questions are

1. given the tome line and the symptoms i describef above, howlikely is me being infected?
2. i only saw 2 lymph nodes and it was specificaly in two locations. is this usual for some hiv infections? i heard that if it is hiv a lot more lymphs likely to be swollen. it never happened for me.
3. my fever was mild. is it possible to have a very mild fever associated sith hiv? or the frver is very high usually.
4. she pwrformed oral sex with lot of passion. often touched upper linings of her mouth.  does it put me at a higher risk?

if possible pls shed lights on my condition. after this encounter i akso had sex eiyh my wife a number of times. she becoming infected is unbearable. pls help with a more detailef replies. thank iyou in advsnce.
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See your doctor if you are concerned it has nothing to do with HIV.
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nothing hiv realted..go to the doctor it might be something you havent read on the internet.
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one last question. so what is causing all these symptoms? this is ruining my life. these are exactly early symptoms of hiv.
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one last question. so what is causing all these syptoms? this is ruining my life. these are exactly early symptoms of hiv.
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1. None
2.. No, it doesn't happen.
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teak, your assurances means a lot to me while under lot of stress.

last few weeks prior to the above incidents i noticed primary syphilis like rash near my penis head. the area is red in color but non-itchy. i can not tell if it is syphilis or not.

1. what are my chances of getting infection from oral if indeed have syphilis? does it make me more valnurable?

2. with your huge experience with people like me, did you ever remember a hiv positive case from syphilis related oral sex?
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You never had an exposure.
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joggen, thank you fpr the fast reply. much appreciated. what do you think of my symptoms? they perfectly match with ARS.

Also onething i did not mention there is i had sex on both the occasions with her with a condom on and did some fingering. i did not see any cuts in my fingers.

but the main concern for me is the oral part. it was pretty rough and passionate oral sex. my penis head may have touched every part of her mouth including gums and upper linings. also she licked my penis head afterward and definately there was a cut in my penis head.
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Oral sex is not a risk for HIV infection under any circumstances.
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