Hiv question

[mat2001]

I met a csw at a Vegas hotel bar and took her to room. Asked her twice if she was clean and she said she gets tested regularly.

- she cleaned her genitals with wet towel and soap and asked me to do same.
- she asked me to put condom and performed oral for 5-10 minutes
- she asked me to get on top and have sex. At this point I was nervous: penetrated once for 5 seconds and again for 5-10 seconds and then stopped. Lost erection and asked her to leave
- after she left I jerked off with same condom, there was no leak and i put water to make sure and no leak

Question: she gave me condom from her car. So I am not sure for how long it was sitting in her car but it wasn't expired. It was latex lubrciated condom. Is there any risk with using a condom that was in her car. It was sealed

I used same condom for oral and brief vaginal. Is there a risk?

[mat2001]

Also, is using same Condom for oral and vaginal a risk?

[Validone]

See you are fine

[CurfewX]

Members in the STDs community will be happy to answer your questions here: http://www.medhelp.org/forums/STDs/show/98

[CurfewX]

No.  Condoms are designed to burst wide open when they fail, so that it is obvious that the condom has failed.

There isn't any "what if" information you can question about this scenario that will lead to any informed member of this forum saying you had a risk.  Nothing at all.   It seems you are terribly anxious about this event, and keep searching the internet for reasons you might have had a risk.  The simple fact is that you did not.  Your best bet is probably to turn off your computer and stop looking for a risk that didn't ever exist.

[mat2001]

Yes, I have been quite anxious and regretful. You guys are great and reassurance really helps.
one more question:  what about STDs other than HIV. Is it possible to get with protected oral or vaginal (read somewhere that some are easy to get)?

[mat2001]

Is it possible to have a small hole in condem and not realize, or not large enough for water to come out. I am worried that there may be a hole that I may have missed even though I didn't see semen coming out. I did put water in a sink but didn't dry the condom from outside or squeeze it to make sure their are no holes.

[Life360_Dave]

Youve been answered accurately as having no risk.

[mat2001]

I dont intend to be a spammer, but this forum is a big help.

[mat2001]

Thanks for your reply Vance. Would you get tested for this exposure for hiv and other std (I read somewhere that some std are easy to get)?

[Vance2335]

You have been answered already

[mat2001]

Any reply will be appreciated. Thanks

[mat2001]

Guys, feeling a little anxious over this exposure. Is my risk really low for hiv and other std?

[Validone]

In order to get hiv the condom has to have some visible tears on top of it that usually would not go undetected

[mat2001]

i masturbated wearing the same condom and semen didn't leak. After that I filled it with water to make sure and there was no leak either.

[Validone]

A) In order for a condom to get damaged from high temperatures inside a car it has to be in it for quite a lomg time, assuming that the csw provdes the clients with condoms this means frequent replacement of the condoms in the car

B) Do you think from her side that she would not be cautious with so many daily encoumters?

C) The penetration lasted only 5 seconds...

Mat stop worrying needlesly there are people in real risk

[mat2001]

Thanks- I don't know how long it was in her car though- she did say that usually she doesn't carry condoms. Penetration was like 15 seconds however, two episodes of 5 and 10 seconds. How would I know if the condom was damaged?

[mat2001]

I read somewhere that condom stored in cars and exposed to high temperature could be at risk. If there was no leak including semen and water, is it safe to assume that condom didn't fail?

[Validone]

No