unprotected oral

[dragonjedi]

hi i am a 26 yr old hetrosexual mongolian  male...i was in bangkok last few months i recieved two times unprotected oral sex by transexuals i dint do anything on them not even kiss...first time on sep 15 and secound time on 14 nov and many times protected vaginal sex with prostitues.. i got recently tested for hiv antibody test on 11 nov and it came out to be negative ..i had sex on oct 26 with a thai prostitute protected the condom did not leaked or tear but there was some blood on the tip of the condom that doesnt really scare me but still i need ur advise real badly as i am having some symptoms that are bothering me a lot...

i have mild fever for past 2 nites and itchy rashes which come and go and itching is very serious...cold runny nose heavy head and a lil sore throat..no joint pain kindly advise me if i have contacted HIV or any std and in future can i rely on antibody test..

i was told that i wouldnt have to be worried about getting hiv through oral insertive sex and condom never leaked or tored i am quite sure but there have been lot of french kissing and so...should i be worried?
did i catch cold because of french kissing?
it was in august that i had an unprotected sex which was with a person whoose status i am aware of but still worried am i infected by hiv?
runny nose,cold,head feels a bit heavy,cold sweating mild fever,itchy rash and 2 or 3 red bumps here and there which came recently,feeling cold even in hot climate,feeling cold and hot at the same time i am sorry for my english not able to explain well..

please advise me or i am just imagining? should i move on?

[happydaze]

Oops.  Sorry I missed that.  Your post was kind of loong.  So, if you tested in November, then your results are conclusive.  You are HIV negative!!  Congrats.  No more unprotected sex.  Condoms prevent HIV infection.  Use them.  Stay safe.  No need to further question your results or your status.  

[dragonjedi]

i did say i got tested on 11 nov and was negative the antibody test.. and the incident in august was protected 100% the condom dint tear or leaked but there was blood of the pro on the tip of the condom ......i always use condom the symptoms are putting me in serious fear i know i may be 90% wrong fear of guilt and that stuff but still advise is much better than judging when ur stressed

[happydaze]

First, very cool name!  Second, nothing you posted has even a remote risk for HIV transmission.  Having a tranny (or anybody for that matter) give you head is not a risk. Whatever you were told about that is wrong. HIV is not transmitted in that manner.  None of the symptoms that you described have ANYTHING to do with HIV at all.  Really.  There are NO specific HIV symptoms.  French kissing.  Nope.  Not a risk.  If you are sexually active, you really need to be better educated about hos HIV and STDs are transmitted.  You should also have at least an annual screening for all STDs including HIV.  It is the responsible thing to do as a sexually active individual.

And since you did mention that you also had unprotected sex (presumably that means intercourse)  in August you should definitely test and now would be a great time since you are 3 months out and any result you get would be conclusive.  Your risk for the august incident was small, but it was real.  Remember, unprotected anal/vaginal intercourse is how HIV is spread sexually.  Use condoms from now on.  They work.  Really.  If you use condoms consistently for anal/vaginal sex until you are in a mutually monogamous relationship with someone who is conclusively negative and you will avoid HIV infection.