How safe am I?

[viswan]

My wife is not on interested in sex.  I get intense attacks of desire therefore I have visited several prostitutes during the last few months.  Always used: condom.  Although I had insertion of the penis  For some time, the ejaculation was always done by hand outside the vagina.  Did some sucking of the breasts should I get tested?  If this level of activity safe or risky?.

[Teak]

HIV is transmitted as Lizzie Lou stated.
Unprotected vaginal and anal sex
Sharing works with other IV drug abusers
Mother to child.

[tommy_via]

This is what i get from http://www.aidshotline.org/

How is HIV transmitted?
HIV can be transmitted from an infected person to another through:

Blood (including menstrual blood)  
Semen  
Vaginal secretions  
Breast milk (risky only to infants)

Mother to Child: Mother to child transmission is now rare in the US and other developed countries because pregnant women who are HIV+ are normally given medications to prevent the fetus from getting infected. However, it is possible for an HIV-infected mother to pass the virus directly before or during birth, or through breast milk. Breast milk contains HIV, and while small amounts of breast milk do not pose significant threat of infection to adults, it is a viable means of transmission to infants.

[LIZZIE LOU]

hiv is transmitted by through...
unprotected vaginal/anal intercourse
sharing iv drug works
mother to child