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I gave cunnilingus toa sex worker while having a healing small sore on my lip

For the first time i wanted to try sex so i went to a sex worker, first i gave her a cunnilingus using only my lips on her clitoris and i didn’t touch her vagina and i kept spitting , the thing is that i forgot i had a healing Small sore it was red and not bleeding i guess , then we had vaginal protected intercourse , fast forward to 1 week now i can’t sleep and all î’m doing is searching for symptomes and i think i feel some and i had a sore throath but i don’t know if it was because î’m growing a wisdome tooth or because of that sexual encouter , i have some pimples too lots of breakouts and i think it’s maybe a rash, i keep checking my lymphe nodes and maybe they are growing , it’s so scary and the anxiety is killing me i feel that î ´ve got the virus and those are the acute symptomes , please i want advices cs i can’t no more :,(
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Your situation involves personal contact with an object in air  ( mouth, vagina, lips, fluids   etc. ). You will be happy to learn that you had no risk, because you can't get hiv from personal contact except unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal with a penis, neither of which you did and you didn't share hollow needles to inject with which is the only other way to acquire hiv - there are ONLY 3 ways to get hiv. Note that 2 of them require a penis and the third requires a hollow injecting shared needle - there are no OTHER ways to get hiv. Analysis of large numbers of infected people over the 40 years of hiv history has proven that people don't get hiv in the way you are worried is a risk.
Hiv is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the WORST that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you say "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
No one got hiv from what you did during 40 years of hiv history and no one will get it in the next 40 years of your life either.  You can do what you did any time and be safe from hiv.
The other person's status is irrelevant when you have no exposure to live virus.
You can't get hiv when you use a condom either, and she is probably negative anyway, otherwise why would she pay for the condom?
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Yes i know but what about those symptomes , i don’t have rash tho but i have 37 degre and a bit of shivering in my arms And thats freaking me out a lot
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"all î’m doing is searching for symptoms" The first step to peace is to stop googling cold turkey and the second is to stop looking at your body cold turkey to see if some impossible hiv symptoms have appeared.
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So, the risks for HIV are clear and do not have exceptions. The risks are unprotected vaginal or anal sex or sharing iv drug needles. Air and saliva inactivate the virus. Giving oral sex is NOT a risk. Whatever you think is going on with your body has nothing to do with HIV as you can't get HIV from a no risk situation. And HIV is not diagnosed by symptoms. Your anxiety is running away from you.  No risk means you did not get HIV from this encounter.
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"Yes i know". Well if you know then you should think this part through. > No hiv disease = no hiv disease symptoms.
Besides 37 is not a fever and your shivers are likely imaginary. It is time to move on from hiv ideas.
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