You were never at risk of contracting HIV.
Hello B,
Thank You for you prompt reply. I wanted to add a detail as I am unsure if this
would change your response, or anyone that reads this. My understanding is std/hiv are passed thru bodily fluids of infected person entering the body of another person.
So before we had anal sex, this man and I both were mutually masturbating, he then fingered me, i didn't see/feel if he had precum on his hand since we were using lube and i wasnt facing him. if he used his thumb/finger to finger me before we had sex, and there was bodily fluid on his finger , that would count as exposure ..what is risk level, high. I m really just terrified, that i thought i was being protected but didn't think about his touching his penis then my anus..
thankd you again. I will not go on to add more and more details " this is last thing that i can think that would include a risk. condom covered penis, him cumming on me or some in mouth, precum/cum on his finger when inserting into my anus..
F.,
If the sex was protected from start to finish, you were not at risk of HIV infection (even if your partner was HIV positive). From your story, it sounds like this was the case. The fact that he ejaculated on your body is irrelevant. And if some did go into your mouth, you should know that even unprotected oral sex is not a risk for HIV. Be well.
-B