I'm worried .. scared !! Plz Help ..

[Sorrow000]

I'm 28 yr old male, my last HIV test was -ve  ( April 2011) .. i met a young boy 23 yr old ( May 2011 ).. we were in Club .. we had a prolonged kissing time 30 min -1 hour ..  i was drunk as well he .. i was Active Top .. he was bottom ... we had unprotected sex .. with lubricant and it wasn't hard .. no blood  .. my penis is cut .. it was a bout 5 Min. i didn't come inside .. after that .. the next day i had muscle and joints pain .. then the 2nd day i got Follicular tonsillitis with Fever .. i relieved Amoxicillin .. no night sweating .. no vomiting or nausea .. after 5 -7 days i was ok ... i called him he said that he had his last - ve HIV  (Febraury 2011 )  and he had his last unprotected sex at the same Month ( Febraury ) with his X-Boy ... i can't wait till i tset myself ..  i'm scared, Depression,  sometimes i think i dont wanna test .. i'm confused .. ican't work .. what's hte propability that i got HIV ??  Ply someone answer me !!! I'm dead !!

[Vance2335]

Can't give you probablility. 3 months is when you can obtain a conclusive test. Make sure to use condoms in the future.

[Sorrow000]

thx for ur answer

[Sorrow000]

am i at high risk .. concerning my story ??

[juandos1980]

testing is the only way to know your status..... a 3 months antibody test is conclusive, but testing @ 6-8 weeks can give u a great indication of your status.....  take care of ur health....

[Sorrow000]

i will test myself .. i'm scared .. i'm a doctor- Physician .. i'm gonna  loose my Job .. everything :-(

[Sorrow000]

if he was positive ( 4 example ) .. what's the probability that i got it ?

[Teak]

Your test will be concllusive 3 months post exposure.