Hey there i'm really going crazy and i need help please, i'm a 20 male , i just moved to south africa and i have never had sex before so it was my first time to have sex with a sex worker and didn't use a condom as it was my first time in my life to have sex and i didn't knew about stds and how popular they are in south africa this was on the 15th of August 2015 and i freaked out i went to a doctor 2 weeks after and tested and results came back negative i was relieved and then started to search the internet again and new about the window period 3months i got worried again and went to a proficional doctor in hiv field and told him my story he told me that i have to test again that was after 8 weeks and i did the rapid test and thank god i got negative result the doctor told me i'm good and i don't have to test nomore but i also waited for the 3 months to pass exactly 11 weeks and retested and i got negative result again thank god i was so relieved and i calmed down but now after 7 months I'm experiencing a white cover on the back of my tongue i don't really know if it's something or i'm just too anxious but i think it's not normal and also swollen neck lymphs i've been cheking then for the whole 7 months as i know they are main symptoms so now i don't really now also if they are really swollen but i had another incident in a club i kissed a girl i don't know and suddenly her nose started bleeding while kissing i don't know if i tasted blood or not but i pushed her away and started running like a crazy man to the toilets and washed my mouth , tongue face and everything million times this was about 3 months ago but then i asked the doctor he said that was no risk . And i also have like a small pimple or something around my anus hole or inside but i feel it while going to the bathroom i don't know if this is hemorrhoid or what , can this by any chance be related to hiv ?
I'm really freakin out i don't know what to do i'm checing every single inch of my body every minute
Should i test again ?
Can this white thing on my tongue be symptoms of hiv appearing so late after 7 months or 3 months from the second incident?