Insertive Oral + Fingering

[stupid_stress]

Okay, first off, I know that I have scoured these forums and found numerous things in regards to the exact same thing. But again, it would make me feel a bit better to have somebody answer my question directly.

I am not a promiscuous person at all, mainly based off of anxiety attacks I cause myself over everything. The internet is always full of horror stories in regards to bad things that happen. But does anybody have a statistical fact based on people who don't get STD's. I mean not everybody who has unprotected oral sex can get Chlamydia, or Syphillis, etc. Are the changes good not to get it?

My direct situation is I had insertive oral sex one time with a girl whose status I did not know. I had heard rumors in the past that she was bi-sexual. Anyways, I had insertive oral sex, and fingered her. I am worried that A) I could get HIV from the oral sex or B) I may have had an abrasion or hangnail on my finger when I fingered her that could cause transmission.

This was the only time I had done anything with anyone.... I am what people think of the risk. Sorry for the repetitive question, but again, getting a direct response to my situation would make me feel better. Thanks to all who could answer!

[Teak]

A. NO.
B. NO

[alienshadow]

The questions you ask are low risk
Did you know HIV is also an STD and not everyone gets it when they have sex with a positive person ? Did you also know that people do get it the first time? So yes I guess it depends on the circumstances wether or not someone would contract other STDs the chance is always there if someone you have sex with has an STD

[stupid_stress]

I understand that people can get it the first time and all of that. My main concern, obviously, is HIV. Whether or not a run of the mill blow job and fingering with a few hangnails is a cause for alarm or a normal part of everyday sexual activity. Thanks for all of the quick responses.

[alienshadow]

H no its no risk I dont care what you read from someone else post or there life story
MOVE ON my friend

[stupid_stress]

Ok, no risk is what I want to hear. If there aren't any documented cases of either kind of transmission I will try not to tear myself up over it. One thing I was wondering based on the stat of 1 in 20000. Would that mean that the risk is 1 in 20,000 everytime the act is committed for each individual or 1 of every 20,000 people would contract this way... if that makes any sense.. I am just confused by the stat.

[agwag]

Do you know that there is a higher chance of you going out next morning and getting hit by a lighting than you contracting hiv from oral sex !!!!!

[alienshadow]

MOVE ON

Stupid stress
         Quit beaten yourself up over this its not worth the time ENERGY or effort

[stupid_stress]

Thanks for the strong opinions. To sum it up.. I have no risk (essentially) and need to get my head out of this.

[alienshadow]

Thats write right rite now have a good night