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I have never posted or replied to any thread in this forum although I have been on and searched numerous topics on the forum. For the most part, I have gotten all the answers I’ve needed but I would like to get a more personal answer. For background sake, I do suffer from anxiety and have a therapist that I do go see in regards to this. So I am aware that my concerns are probably exaggerated but I’d still rather be safe than sorry.
I, like many people on here, are pretty nervous after having a possible “std/HIV incident”. My incident happened about a month ago while I was on vacation in Spain. I was fairly drunk and a prostitute on the street(do not know if it makes a difference but she was of African descent) offered to have sex with me. So I went along and she gave me protected oral and for the most part protected anal/or vaginal(I was so drunk I do not remember if it was anal or vaginal the intercourse). I did have an erection but barely and I did not ejaculate(pre-*** was there though). The possible transmission happened when the condom broke probably due to the fact that she was pretty dry. I was told that prostitutes are trained to notice any condom breaks or tears and I believe she pulled out immediately. In which time I got a little nervous took off the condom and asked her if she was clean. She didn’t understand to well but said yes, I went back to my hotel cleaned myself and that was that.
Up until yesterday I was fine, for some reason I got so nervous and decided to go crazy looking on the internet and freaked myself out so much I went this morning to do both a Chlaymidia and ghannohrea urine test. When I got back from the trip, I also did an HIV/Syphillis test( maybe 8-12 days after the incident) and both came back negative. I did not do a Herpes test because I was already confirmed that I had it about 2 years ago.
My questions are this:
1) Would the risk levels change if it were anal instead of vaginal and vice-versa?
2) Since a conclusive test for HIV/Syphillis tends to take 3 months, should I do so?
I appreciate any information you are able to provide. I understand the amount of questions(especially repeats that you may encounter on a daily basis) so your answer will be all the more appreciated.
I did say I used protection, but I am not aware if it was anal or vaginal because I was intoxicated. I also did state that the condom broke but from what I can remember she caught it quickly and pulled out almost immediately.
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