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Made a mistake need some advice please

Hi all would really appreciate your input......

I am a straight 28 year old male in a 5 year relationship, but whilst in Macau went to a sauna to have a massage (2 days ago), which turned much more erotic than I had planned. I got a 'soapy' massage where the girl rubbed her body and vagina over my penis, although there was no penetration, but grinding for at least a minute. I also received unprotected oral sex. Nothing else happened.

I am now feeling incredibly guilty, and am very anxious and am kind of in a state of depression.

1. Did I put myself at any risk of contracting HIV?
2. I feel a tingling sensation at the top of my penis, no real pain, so not sure if its my anxiety effecting me. What STD's have I put myself at risk for and when is it advisable that I should get an STD check up.

Any advice would really help, as I'm still away from home, and have no one to talk to about this.

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556087 tn?1226595414
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Yeah I think I would benefit from seeing a councellor......

How long would you advice before getting an STD check up? I'm guessing the time frames are shorter than for HIV.

Thanks.
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556087 tn?1226595414
no and yes its anxiety please seek mental health advice
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