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May someone help me please ??? ORAL PROT. SEX

Dear All, Dear Mr. Doctor,

I'm at very, but very high anxiety level...

8 - 9 Weeks ago I had go to a prostitute and he make me oral sex...
Will eplain you how was happened everything, First of all, she became naked, I entered my finger into hER vgina for few seconds, than I have put my condom on the tool, than She start to lick my testicles, and than start to lick the tool with the condom on it, I could be shure that the conom was used propertly, as after all this things I have pull out the condom and test it if was broken, burst, or drilled, I had drag it and push it on the head and it was ok....no brokage...
My finger was intact...no swore, only that I had some cuts or covered sores boyound my testicles (but not on them) ...... Most UNprobably her saliva was touching that sores - I'm not shure

The story will start now.... after 1-2 days I had a quite small flu (with some nasal flow, some slow pain in the throat, and some slow sweat over the night and day, I think without any fever, or mouscular fever, or any boost of my lipho nodes) wich was testing me also before the contact....this small flu was holding me for 5-6 days, than after 1 week, 1 week and a half after the contact a severe diarheea was holding me for 5-6 weeks (intermitent), first week with very very high anxiety, loosing of apetite (because all the day I was thinking to not contact some SDI or something, I had loose almost 3 Kgs (from 87-86 kgs to 83-84gks) in one week, I had also somedizziness, and all the time I was thinking only to the fact that i could receive some sexual disease . My girlfriend also had have a flu after 1 week from my sexual contact with that prostitute (because we had have unprotected normal sex) , and than after some several headeack but I don't know if it was connected to the premenstrual and menstrual period....
Sometimes i have some pain in my arms, some pain in my leggs ...etc...

I don't know waht to think.. I visit also some doctors and some of them sayd that there is no reason to test about HIV, some of them assure that I have nothing but is better to test...I really don't know what to do, I' so anxious, and freaked out, I could not concentrate anymore on m work at the office, My life has really take another view ...

I'm so affraid to make that test...

What do you say about that simpotoms? do they are connected to HIv ? All my doctors said that categoricaly NO, because the diareea it's a sign of AIDS and not HIV ,and the little flu was much to early to be connected to this disease.

I will wait patient for your answers!

Thanks alot and have a nice day or night!
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:-))

I love you everybody on this site...
You are extremely positive (by the way of thinking) :-) .

Thanks for your thoughts ...

But that will not STOP me to PRAY to MY GOD ...

After that incident I've become extremely ORTHODOX !

Nice day to you!
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You don't read do you? You did not have a risk, so how can we tell you about a 2 month test when you had no risk?
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You've already received our opinions multiple times. No need to "Pray to God"  in light of your NO RISK behavior and NEGATIVE HIV TEST. Bye Now.

-JC-
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Thanks Mr. TEAK,

Yes, maybe you were right ! an for shure you are, but My high anxiety from the last weeks an period and my conscience tells me that I had need to test.

I know already your opinion, viewing the last posts on the forum, and you are ready to say NOT A RISK ... But maybe you don't know how is realy with this anxiety... I suppose, I don't know... considering that in the game is  also my gf health.... it is to much for me...

I pray to GOD everyday !

I will do the test also at SIX  months in order to be shure.

Your opinion about the results of 2 months testing (NEGATIVE) what is it ?

Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
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Considering that as much as you refuse to believe, YOU NEVER HAD A RISK, there is NO NEED to retest. Time to move on now.

-JC-
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You didn't have an exposure and didn't need to test.
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Hello Everyboy..

Yesterday I have been teste for HIV, I on't know for what type of test , if it was PCR, ELISA, WB, or anything else,  

THE RESULTS WAS NEGATIVE.....

The test was made at EXACTICALY 2 MONTHS after the exposure (or 9 weeks).

Considering my exposure, o you thing it's enough and definitive?

Thanks to every expert from this forum and for his answer !!!

Nice day to you!
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I realy don't unerstand...

Anyway, Anyhow... thanks
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We are done with this discussion...
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Hello Mr TEAK,

Sorry that i had disturbing you, but i have some complexes,
Concerned the act explained by me, and the pseudo-symptoms, what would  you say?
What would be your oppinion ?
after that I'll stop to comment excesively !

tx
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Hello,

I'll become paranoia ... no one want's to speak about that 1 in 10.000 people ?

and about my last posts?

tx
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Tx for that Link, I saw that there is no RISK... at least not for ORAL SEX, but mush more than this i did it protected...

But what about that 1 to 10.000 person chanses for one who had oral sex ??? what study are taht ?

tx
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Thanks very much Ms. LIZZIE ...

I'm very anxoius... every day I pray to GOD to be healthy ...for me and my girlfiend ... I'm terribly scared, I don't know why all the doctors who viewed me has telling me that I had no exposure, but some of them put me to do that test...I realy don't know...
I think that I loose 4 to 5 hours per day reading HIV articles, symptoms and much more other.... some doctors forbiden me the acces to the internet because can put me in a very high risk of everythnig....
If that was not hiv related symptoms... that why five weeks of diarheea? I never had that before... maybe it was the nervous side or agitation or ...I don't know...

Are you a specialist in this domain Ms. Lizzie ?

Thabks very much and sorry again for disturbing!
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NOTHING you described put you at risk for hiv.  your "symptoms" are not hiv related.
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More than this I could say... that I didnt saw any blood on her mouth... at least not on that tiny light...

tx
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