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What is my risk for HIV and/or STIs? HELP!

Hi,

I am 25 years old heterosexual and this is my first time, in life, having any sexual encounter with a woman. I had an encounter with a High End escort about 3 days ago, who charged 1000 for 2 hours. I was my first and last time doing this, because since then I have lost my sleep and sanity.

Let me be very frank! We never kissed on each other's lips, genitals, or anus during entire time. But, we kissed very passionately to each others nipples, neck, breasts, and limbs.

First, lady was playing with my penis and applied KY Jelly with her hands. Then she put to a Trojan condom on to give me oral sex, and after a minute of pleasuring me we had vaginal intercourse, which lasted for about two minutes. There was no condom break nor tear, and she slipped condom off of my penis with a paper napkin.

Then, she stated to kissing my body for second time arousal, and we kissed each other's body passionately. After some foreplay, she slips a new Trojan condom on and we had second vaginal intercourse, which lasted about 8 to 10 minutes, and she slipped condom off of my penis and I cleaned my penis with tissues.

Next, 10 minutes later, we took a hot shower together. Here, she used her hand to arouse me again and gave me a hand job, and she was rubbing her vagina with her other hand as well. Then, we cleaned each other with soap; and then, i took a second shower because i felt very guilty and scared about catching something. This time I rubbed my body and private parts extensively with soap and hot water, and also used lots of Listerine Mouthwash to clean my mouth several time. I feel very guilty and cheap and unworthy since my encounter with this escort.

Since, then, I have this negative though in my mind that I might get HIV or something. I have lost my appetite, sleep, and sanity. Please Help Me in regards to, Do I need HIV and/or STD testings, and what do I do next? May be I am too scared because it was my first vaginal intercourse, I just dont know. Please Help!
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The above answers you were given are the only risks. All STD questions need to be asked in the STD forum.
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so, sir, you meant to say that her kissing my testicles without protection (however, my penis was covered with Trojan latex condom when her had my penis inside of her mouth, and vaginal intercourses), and handjob without protection are completely safe? should i worry about getting std's test done? thank you for your help sir. i greatly appreciate it.
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HIV is transmitted by,
Unprotected anal and vaginal sex
Sharing works with other IV drug abusers
Mother to child.
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so, her touching my penis with lube and then pitting condom on me does not expose me to the HIV or STI risk? And, what about hand jobs?
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You never had a risk of contracting HIV.
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