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Hi, I recently had a sexual experience with a transvestite sex worker. She gave me oral sex with a condom and I also penetrated her with a condom . I tried to insert it without lube but then I put silicone based lube on top of the condom and proceed to insert my penis,inside her . We went at it for a little under 30 seconds I would say, and before I ejaculated I pulled out . Now I didn't see any tears or holes in the condom once i removed it . I held the condom from the base and let the tip hang down, I didn't see any cum dripping or anything . Is that a good sign that the condom worked? I did feel the outside of the condom once i removed it and it felt moist. What's my risk if it didn't break? I'm worried about having caught HIV!! But based on what I saw, I feel like there were no holes or anything on the condom. How would I check if it had holes,after removal?
Oral is zero risk.
If a condom fails it rips down the seam and both of you would notice it hanging in tatters. There is no need to check for holes since that is just a myth.
If a condom fails it rips down the seam and both of you would notice it hanging in tatters. There is no need to check for holes since that is just a myth.
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What about penetration with a condom ? And what do you mean by I would notice it hanging in tatters?
The more penetration the bigger the rip so I don't know what your first sentence is about.
Perhaps this will clear it up. When it rips down the seam it is always a big one. That is why it will hang in tatters.
Perhaps this will clear it up. When it rips down the seam it is always a big one. That is why it will hang in tatters.
So i didn't notice the condom rip. I'm asking how would I know it worked . The sperm was all inside the condom, I didn't notice any drips when I removed it and held it from the base, everything seemed to be inside the condom. But I'm asking how risky would anal sex be if I'm the top and I use a condom. That's what I did .
Reread all of the advice because you are asking the same questions that are answered. A ripped condom hanging in tatters would be visible/detectable even to a blind man and woman, which you two weren't, so you both would know.
So if I didn't notice it break, I was basically safe thought the whole sexual activity ?
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