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i am worried about myself very much. please help me.
I have unprotected vagina sex with my boyfriend without ejaculation. But he had hiv test which is non-reactive. Before had this test, he told me that he had no sex life for several months. this test took 7months ago in singapore. and he did not have other sex partners before meet me.
and after this test, he did other blood test after came to UK. this test is required from university. but the nurse looked very young, she tried twice to get blood from his arm. I am also worried if it is possible that this nurse forgot to change the needle which had used for other person who was infected by hiv. then my boyfriend will get hiv from him.
I dont know if my upset is not necessary. but i am worried to be infected everyday. cos, he doesn't like to use a condom,and he told me several times he is ok. So I can go to have a test in the uk, but we often have sex. so i don't know,if i am too nervous. what can i do now? i need u guys help
thank you very much
I have unprotected vagina sex with my boyfriend without ejaculation. But he had hiv test which is non-reactive. Before had this test, he told me that he had no sex life for several months. this test took 7months ago in singapore. and he did not have other sex partners before meet me.
and after this test, he did other blood test after came to UK. this test is required from university. but the nurse looked very young, she tried twice to get blood from his arm. I am also worried if it is possible that this nurse forgot to change the needle which had used for other person who was infected by hiv. then my boyfriend will get hiv from him.
I dont know if my upset is not necessary. but i am worried to be infected everyday. cos, he doesn't like to use a condom,and he told me several times he is ok. So I can go to have a test in the uk, but we often have sex. so i don't know,if i am too nervous. what can i do now? i need u guys help
thank you very much
Honestly I don't understand your concerns and the comments from the other users - unless I missed something in your story. It's OK to have sex with your boyfriend, with or without a condom. Since he is HIV-negative, you can't get HIV from him, as long as he remains faithful to you. You don't get HIV from people that are not infected themselves.
You know for a fact that your bf has not had any unprotected sex from three months before his test up until he had sex with you? If he hasn't and you can believe him, then you don't have a risk. Would I ever trust anyone telling me that they didn't have unprotected sex before dismissing the use of condoms? NO...
Sorry Uniquelymen， i dont understand what u mean.
I am now scared. i want to know if there is high risk i got, was i probably infected, or i am in a safe situation .
I am now scared. i want to know if there is high risk i got, was i probably infected, or i am in a safe situation .
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Just a note....you may wish to stay in one thread instead of posting on a new thread....it helps in the discussion ....
cheers!
I saw his test result is non-reactive, which is tested in Singapore. and the date is in August with a doctor signed. and he told me several times before did this test, he had not have sex for several months.
so whatever he is hiv or not, if i have unprotected sex,i have to test? but if he is not infected, will i be infected hiv?
You had unprotected sex. You need to test at 3 months post exposure to get a conclusive result.
have condom protected sex from NOW until you test after your last unprotected intercourse.
the nurse did not use a dirty needle!
the nurse did not use a dirty needle!
he is my boyfriend, we still have sex relation now. so the test just can confirm 3 months ago not now. and I am worried about if he has infected by the wrong operation of the nurse.but i am sure he does not have other sex partners.
lets see now...
your boyfriend tested seven months ago and told you that he has NOT had any sex since and before you.
he hates wearing a condom...so did my son and he got hiv from "this" hate.
i, personally, would not take anyone's word on it...although the chances that he actually has hiv are probably slim. if i were you...i would abstain from having sex without a condom for the next 6 weeks...both of you get tested. this should be a good indicator of your status...but according to guidelines...one must test til 3 months for a conclusive result.
your boyfriend tested seven months ago and told you that he has NOT had any sex since and before you.
he hates wearing a condom...so did my son and he got hiv from "this" hate.
i, personally, would not take anyone's word on it...although the chances that he actually has hiv are probably slim. if i were you...i would abstain from having sex without a condom for the next 6 weeks...both of you get tested. this should be a good indicator of your status...but according to guidelines...one must test til 3 months for a conclusive result.
what made you worry? were you somehow having sore throat or maybe sudden pimple appearing here and there....or feeling weird all of the sudden?
to really ease you down, get tested, sweetie.
words cannot be trust when having sex...use condom
to really ease you down, get tested, sweetie.
words cannot be trust when having sex...use condom
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